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Nukelas
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 Posted: Mon Jan 21, 2008 11:18 am Post subject: im just curious |
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i had a throw party with lots of pepole and i got in bed with a girl (by doin steps from "THE GAME" now i asked her if she wanted to be fuck freind just for fun .. but now i realized that she wants more... she says stuff like u do if u want a closer relation " your so handsome your are so good" she will come to me at friday and i wounder is it wrong to talk to her the same way or should i just keep talk with her.. i want to be freinds and just sex no relationship
got any idea ?! |
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Heartbeat
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| Posted: Mon Jan 21, 2008 11:32 am Post subject: |
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| Make it very clear to her what you want from this relationship. Don't lead her on. It isn't fair on her. |
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The Wild One
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| This happens all the time especially if you let girls know your not interested in a serious relationship. They will see you as a challenge become attached and then will expect you to change your behavior. In a sense you become their project and they try to make you their boyfriend. I think every pua I know has had this happen to them. |
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Mr. Perfect
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| Posted: Mon Jan 21, 2008 5:27 pm Post subject: |
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| The Wild One wrote: | | This happens all the time especially if you let girls know your not interested in a serious relationship. They will see you as a challenge become attached and then will expect you to change your behavior. In a sense you become their project and they try to make you their boyfriend. I think every pua I know has had this happen to them. |
heh yea that it true..but just remember you have to make sure that you make it clear to her..because its not fair...put yourself in her position..i have strung along women in my life for "convenience" and they turned out to be very very nice girls and it just makes you feel bad afterwards after a few times..
just make sure you guys are clear..and who knows maybe she'll grow onto you..but its critical for you not too change, women are like babies growing up... you have to start "discipline" from the beginning, you cant start whooping the kids ass after he's like 10years old, and just like spoiling, you spoil the kid he'll never be greatful, but if you make them earn it, it becomes appreaciated.. |
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