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thanks man, yeah i figured i'd play it safe with the escalation because it seemed right on the line. there are scenarios where it's very obvious that the friend is cool with you hitting on the target and in those instances i absolutely go for it, but this situation felt a little more restrained (3 young professionals so that whole 'respectable' aura...) so i held back and was just really charming and flirty. i MAY have been able to escalate but this target has more longterm potential than the usual pickup so i didn't want to misfire. would have gone for it otherwise and probably would have been ok last night but just a little risky and no harm in being a bit of a challenge...
are you saying i should text her to set something up or just figure out her schedule independently? seems like you mean the former but just clarifying lol... she's got the bar exam so she won't have much free time the next month but maybe i'll hit her up on a weekend.
thanks for the feedback bud
Quite a well-play night, but it could be better.
SOmething worth point out is attraction do expired. Although she's highly attracted to you that night, she might not the other day.
You have to close the deal faster or offer her a conversation like no one else (but do escalate on her to show that you are not just a platonic friend; but a sexual man), that's the best way to solidfy the attraction.
Ask her out as soon as you can and do any of the things above.
It doesn;t matter if she have a dude; it's matter if you are good enough that she can't let you go.
Hope this help,
Naughty Napoleon