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Lol, on that feeling, I envy u magnum =/ I never had any interaction go THAT well with a stranger, that I feel SO good after ^^..
U have any word of advice on how 2 create that vibe? If I dare ask of u, can u tell me about the pu, I meen what "linear actions" did it have?
Yup.. heres the background.. this girl came into my office she was there to meet w/ clients so I excused myself from the meeting I was in to talk to her haha.. I remember us really locking eyes (eye contact is really important) anyway it was mostly small talk about where she went to school bullshit really. Actually to best describe how it went down think about when Hitch meets that reporter, he talks to her only for a few mins the first time and then walks away and then contacts her a few days later (at this point she already feels some sort of comfort cuz she met he from before) I did the same thing, I told her I had to get back to my meeting. I emailed her a few days later on her work email and picked up the conversation where we left of by telling her about a friend that we had in common. I went w/ my friend then and had a quick bite to eat w/ her where it was pretty much me non stop busting her balls and making her laugh. Then the most we did was text or email back and forth mainly cuz she has a bf (which she seemed to go out of her way to say how things weren't good and she wished she was single)
ok this brings us up to last night... I needed a date to a business party so I called her up and insisted she went w/ me for "networking purposes" understand this is the semi professional/flirty relationship we have built to this point. I actually just wanted her to come cuz I wanted to make sure I showed up to this thing w. a gorgeous girl on my arm.. It sorta helps in business
So at the party their were like black jack tables and shit manned w/ dealers and stuff.. so she sat w/ me and we drank our cranberry and vodkas and I made sure the primary attention I paid to her was to sorta tease her and bust her balls a little. Meanwhile I made sure I networked w/ all the other business men their (leader of men attraction switch). there was a TON of kino all night..
then later I walked her to her car where we talked for like 15 mins or so and I did the cube which was DEAD on! (it usually always is) she def had the Doggy dinner bowl look after that hahah. Then she gave me a hug goodbye.. This hug wasn't just a friendly or professional hug it was a full out both arms around my neck kinda hug. about 15 mins later after she left she text me and thanked me for the night and told me how much fun she had. she actually ended up calling me again at like 2 in the morning but thats another story.
Either way as you can see here there really wasn't any magical moves or routine, well except the cube, but rest of it was the connection she is a really fun girl that dishes the shit back and thats part of the vibe we have.
I really wouldn't doubt that we get together after the bf is out of the picture.. but w/ the holidays here thats not gonna happen right now so I play it cool until then.
The other thing about this girl is she has a really strong frame.. shes very very smart and really understand the game.. lines, games and routines she will rip apart she see's through them. In fact one cool thing about our vibe is what her and I talk about has nothing to do w/ the words we are saying.. theres like underlying meanings to everything we say to each other and her and I know both knows this but no one around us does.
One thing I liked about the book "The Art of Seduction" is that it isn't a one method fits all type thing, it teaches you how to identify different personality types and play to each one of them differently.