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Rayovac
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 Posted: Thu Sep 14, 2006 6:06 pm Post subject: i fail @ steak n' shake |
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so as i'm driving home i txt msg this bid(HB10) that i know. she's almost off work. so we keep textin back and forth for like an hour probably. then i get home and she says "do u have aim"
so we talk on AIM for awhile and she ends up asking me to go eat with her at 3 AM that night. we meet up and she drives. we talk the entire night. i was neggin her like crazy and she was laughing and having fun the whole time. i wasn't sure HOW to make a move... so i fail.
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xfman
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| Posted: Thu Sep 14, 2006 9:38 pm Post subject: |
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Mystery use this one:
Just say out of the blue:
Do you wnat to kiss me ?
Girl : Yes/ Maybe
Lets find out ... Grab her and kiss her |
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Shaft
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You gotta remember there is another exit from that.... She could say No... In which case...
YOU:Did you wanna kiss me?
Her:No....
YOU:I never said you could kiss me. It just looked like you had something on your mind. |
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xfman
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| Posted: Fri Sep 15, 2006 12:24 am Post subject: |
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Just say out of the blue:
YOU: Do you wnat to kiss me ?
HER: Yes/ Maybe
YOU: Lets find out ... Grab her and kiss her
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YOU:Did you wanna kiss me?
Her:No....
YOU:I never said you could kiss me. It just looked like you had something on your mind.
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Monkey
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The boys above have forgotten one key detail: kino.
Making any kind of move requires that you initiate and continue physical contact. Innocent contact at first, but slowly escalating into more intimate forms of contact.
I talk with my hands, so touching a girl's upper arm is as easy as flicking my wrist at them like a gay man. You may want a more masculine initiation, but it works for me, and I stick by it. After a couple of these innocent touches, I'll scootch my whole body until I'm touching them arm-to-arm, hip-to-hip. I'll put my arm around them if I can, and make excuses to hold their hand. I'll touch their face last before moving in for the kiss-close, as written above.
Kino, from innocent to sexual, is a very important progression. It's better to keep yourself from thinking of it as "making a move," and better to see it as a series of small steps towards taking her clothes off. |
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Rayovac
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| Monkey wrote: | | touching a girl's upper arm is as easy as flicking my wrist at them like a gay man. You may want a more masculine initiation, but it works for me |
lol
while we were waiting for our food i told her, very confidently, to give me her hand. she did. then i just held her hand above the table for a few seconds... and then i took my hand away. i suck @ kino. thx for the tips. i can only get better! |
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xfman
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| Posted: Fri Sep 15, 2006 6:45 pm Post subject: |
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You have to make used to kino , when i tell a story in the most interesting part i grab their hands or something like that.
i start kino early in A1 - A2 |
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Rayovac
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| Posted: Tue Sep 19, 2006 8:44 am Post subject: |
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Same thing tonight with the same girl. Our legs were touching underneath the table and she didn't seem to mind 
I need a confidence boost so I can initiate more kino. |
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xfman
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| Posted: Tue Sep 19, 2006 9:08 pm Post subject: |
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Remember a really important piece of your game is your inner -game How you feel , your confidence, Work Up some of your confidence.
* NOte : REMEMBER THAT GIRLS LOVE KINO, RUB HER ARM WHEN YOU TALK TO HER , HOLD HER HANDS WHENEVER YOU CAN, TOUCH HER FACE(JUST TO REMOVE AN EYELASH) AND WHEN YOU FEEL ITS TIME SAY THIS:
YOU: Do you want to kiss me ?
HER: Yes/ Maybe
YOU: Lets find out ... Grab her and kiss her |
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Monkey
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Close anxiety is just as horrible as approach anxiety. In fact, it's worse for me, because it's at this point that the rejection becomes a real rejection of YOU, instead of a general rejection of whatever happens to be going on.
If you're having trouble initiating and escalating kino, treat it the same way you did your approach anxiety. It's uncomfortable, but you plow through it and make with the touching. You'll find it more comfortable as time goes on.
I have to work on my close anxiety too, though, so this is sort of like the blind leading the blind. ^_^ |
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Rayovac
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I told my RL friend I went out to eat with her again monday night and he said "If the next thing you tell me isn't that you ate her out instead of took her out to eat, i'm going to think you're gay."
lol. i will hit her up in the middle of next week if i'm not busy |
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Keep us posted please 
Good luck bro. |
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