TD1986
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 Posted: Tue Oct 30, 2007 4:25 am Post subject: I can't disarm the freaking obstacles. |
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| Allright I'm new here. I recently read Mystery's book the "Art of Seduction" so I'm still calibrating. There is this girl on one of my classes, is a big auditorium. She is kinda cute, she is prob like 7, but she seems like a sweet girl, and somehow attracks me. I've been working on these for a couple of weeks. She usually hangs around with two girls and a guy. I seat two rows in back of her, but a couple of weeks ago I started my game by talking to her friends I made friends with them(Or at least that's what I thought) and I didn't talk to her. Last friday we had a guiz so she finished early, and she was outside waiting for her friend(Who has a bf), so I came outside and I and I had to wait for my female friend, so I thought that that was perfect moment to start talking. To my surprise she showed a lot more IOIs than I was expecting. I knew that she had notice me once, because she opened the door for me once although I was super far away, and I caught her looking at me couple of times. So going back to the story, I talked to her, then I shut up she talks back and asks question. She is interested??? Or maybe she is just nice??? Her friend came out, so while she is walking away she says bye, so I say bye. I had to wait for my female friend for like 10 more minutes. Today I see her in class, so at the end on class while they are walking (Moving target) I said what's up to her, she said hi, then I turn to the friend and I start talking about classes(something neutral) The friend totally ignored me At the same moment one of my buddies comes and starts talking to me, so I lost her. Now I'm scared that she may take that as a DLV. What should I do fellows. I think her friend doesn't like me. Her guy friend is cool, actually he doesn't care. I'm scared to go and use the old: "I wanna seeif there is more in you than your looks" and try to get her to go to have coffe with me or something, and get the old: "I have a bf!!" or any variant of that. What should I do?????????? |
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puravida
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Hey Man you should re-post this on a different area in order to get the right response. It sounds to me like you did fine opening her, and I don't think you should over analyze the situation in both respects:
1. I don't think you're really in her radar yet. She opened a door for you, she opens doors for people all day, and I'm sure you do to. Right now she probably recognizes you as a guy from a class but that's about it. (Girl's seem to be more oblivious to who's in their classes and around them in general - or they pretend to not notice)
2. She seemed relatively responsive to your approach. It sounds like you guys were starting to have a good conversation until you all got interrupted.
The next thing you should really do is approach her when she is with her other friends from the class while leaving or something like that and start a conversation with all of them making sure to ignore her the most and then also make sure to have to leave before they do. It's difficult in a college situation because everyone has to go to class all the time, so everyone is in a rush to leave.
Also, I think that what might help is to not think of your approach as a one time thing, but rather something that can build to you moving the conversation somewhere else.
That's just my take on the situation, like I said I think you should re-post this and you'll probably get a bunch more responses that are more helpful than mine. |
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