How to Attract Men

There are a lot of misconceptions with women's general understanding of how to attract men. Seeing as you've found this page you're probably not attracting guys as often as you would like. Why do you think this is the case?

Some women think that attraction is purely based on looks, the way you dress and your general appearance. While some men may be ignorant enough to agree with such a statement, the quality men that I'm sure you've been looking for tend to take into consideration far more than just physical appearance. I've broken down how to attract men into two simple areas that anyone can follow to gets results. Both of these areas seem to be so simple and commonly said that women tend to glaze over them, when in reality they are by far the most important things you can ever do to attract a man. I assure you, with just a few millimetre shifts from what you've already been doing, you'll be attracting men like there's no tomorrow!

1. Flirting properly
Be willing to break rapport. By this I mean don't be afraid to playfully challenge men you've just met. Be willing to call him out on his assertions that you disagree with. This might initially seem like its going to do more harm than good, but ironically challenging people this way actually creates more attraction.

Tell him something you can't resist in a man. If you want to build sexual tension with a man, the fastest way is to tell him "I can't resist men who wear (that aftershave/that jacket/those shoes)." The same goes for complimenting him; it's better to pick out something that makes him sexy than just to tell him he's sexy. For example, "I love your jacket! Leather is always really sexy on guys." - See, how the compliment is less direct because you are making it about what you like on guys, rather than him specifically.

Playfully touch him every now and again. By throwing in little touches to the mix, you'll seriously spike his attraction. But remember; when touching a guy, always think playfully, rather than seductive. Don't go over the top with this; a little touch on the back of the arm as you point something out to him or playfully patting his chest when he makes you laugh is enough to turn him on.

2. Using body language
Get the basics down. There is no need to run down to your local Waterstones to pick up the latest bible on body language. Fortunately, in order to attract men, you need to keep things nice and simple. Most importantly of all, hold strong eye contact with a guy. This should be a given; it doesn't matter whether you're eye flirting with a guy across the room, or you're standing next to him at a bar chatting, your power as a woman is in your look. Almost as important as eye contact is having a genuine smile. When you're out, it's imperative that you're having fun with your friends. Seeing a group of women standing at a bar scanning the room for potential guys is not attractive. Be engaged with your friends and then it's okay to occasionally look around the venue momentarily.

Open Up. Stand up straight with good, but not exaggerated posture. If you want guys to come and approach you, you have to subconsciously show him he's welcome to do so. Standing rigid with a scornful expression and your arms crossed will scare away even the most daring of single men. Instead, uncross your arms and gesticulate when you speak. Just from doing this, you'll immediately see a difference in the number of guys that approach you on a night out.

So there you have it, understanding how to attract men in any situation really comes down to two things: flirting correctly and giving off the right messages with your body language.