Mordl
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 Posted: Thu Sep 27, 2007 7:14 pm Post subject: how would YOU handle this... |
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So I went to visit my best friend at college last weekend, and I'm going again in a few weeks. The night that I arrived there, he was with a gorgeous Italian/Puerto Rican girl, I'd give her at least a 9, maybe a 10. Now, he actually dated this girl for a few months his Junior year, and after breaking up it wasn't until late his Senior year that they started hanging out again. I saw this girl only a few times prior to this weekend since my friend never really hung out with both of us at the same time.
Anyway, the situation with them now is mostly friends, but at times I get the sense that it's a little more than that. The girl does have a boyfriend of maybe 6 months who is at another college and only sees her every other weekend.
So, now to what happened that night. The three of us were hanging out at this 34-yr-old dude's porch who bought us beer (we're 18-19), just talking and drinking. But the entire time the girl seems to be giving me multiple IOI's (I'm new to "The Game" so I can't be sure). Every time I spoke, she was always looking straight into my eyes with interest, and when I implemented DHV spikes into my stories she always responded with "wow" comments. Later on we were walking to 7 eleven to get more booze (me, her, my friend, and the 34-yr-old dude) and she locked her arm with mine and ran ahead so that the other 2 guys were way behind us. She started showing and telling me about various landmarks on the campus etc. and I just kinda responded with questions to keep her talking.
Even later on in the night we went into a house party for like only 30 mins and then just sat outside. My friend went inside to get more beer and I was once again alone with her. She say to me "Man, it sucks for girls 'cause we get drunk so easily" or something along those lines. I forgot how I responded but I remember I started looking away but knew that she kept looking at me. Now, you might ask yourself, why would I do that? Well, I was confused at that point mostly because I know that my best friend who I've known most of my life is really into her. That's why I tried to keep it friendly but nothing more than that. Anyway, after about 30 seconds of me looking away and showing no interest she got up, told me she was leaving, and walked to her dorm.
Now, first, I'm curious if she really was interested in me and even hitting on me or if possibly it was just an attempt to make my friend jealous. And second, how would I go about finding out whether she is or isn't into my friend, so I can make the choice to either try to play my game on her or not. |
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Surreal
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| Posted: Thu Sep 27, 2007 8:43 pm Post subject: |
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| You already started playing the game with her, you DHV'd yourself and I'm sure you probably used some other techniques and she responded as she should. You have her interest so if you want to take it further you could. Talk with your friend this isn't like the front seat of a car that you can call, if she isn't interested in him it shouldn't mean you SOL. |
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