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Jiongo
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 Posted: Sat Jan 05, 2008 7:59 am Post subject: How to solve this? |
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| I generally know what to say to a women when I want to walk up to her. But when I see the perfect moment to do so, I fucken freeze, forget what I was going to say, and evadentially fail. Because when I start walking up I start thinking to much, worry how I look, how I smell, and will just be struck and have my confendence lowered when its a fail. What is a good way of breaking into the approuch fear and just fucken bag that number. |
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Mr.Right
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| this is such a common experience for guys... but its really easily overcome, you see all you have to do is be natural and use some fluff talk (random subject to keep conversation). also try to come across as cocky&funny while doing this. . best way to bag any is to just be confident and look deep into their eyes when they talk. if you do this right then u have it in the bag. |
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teletitty
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GET DRUNK!
j/k
I was the same way but i forced myself to go out to bars and other target rich places and set a goal of how many approaches to do. like usually 5 to 10. after a while u well get so comfortable approaching strange woman.
go out at least twice a week and set goals of how many approaches to do within the night.
u will get rejected
u will get ignored.
u will get laughed at.
this one girl at a pizza place threatoned to call the cops on me once. lol :X
its all bullshit man. jsut dont give a fuck bout dem hoes. pleanty more where that came from. |
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teletitty
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GET DRUNK!
j/k
I was the same way but i forced myself to go out to bars and other target rich places and set a goal of how many approaches to do. like usually 5 to 10. after a while u well get so comfortable approaching strange woman.
go out at least twice a week and set goals of how many approaches to do within the night.
u will get rejected
u will get ignored.
u will get laughed at.
this one girl at a pizza place threatoned to call the cops on me once. lol :X
its all bullshit man. jsut dont give a fuck bout dem hoes. pleanty more where that came from. |
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MidnightPhyre
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| Its not about a set routine all the time... you really just have to be yourself and like Mr. Right said try to come across as cocky and funny. If you forget a line, so what, what do you really have to lose? NOTHING. There are plenty of other targets out there. Keep your chin up bro! |
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Faz
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like what everyone else has said you just got to bite the bullet and go for it, when i started i had the same problem but found it help to build up my confidence starting out in bars and places not close to where i lived that way if i made a tit of myself who cared i wasnt going to be there again. well thats what i thought till i regulary kept walking out with numbers in my pocket and had to go back to these places to hook up with the chicks i used to be worried about approaching.
end of the day forget going in with a set plan or line cause when you start out its less what you do and more how you do it. i.e cocky and confident for example. |
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