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fohawk
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 Posted: Fri Dec 07, 2007 7:48 pm Post subject: How to respond? |
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So after ending a long relationship in college i have entered this pick up community... I have read The Game and have been interested since... So I have been out sarging a few times, and have had more fun going out and talking to people. Last night I went to a new bar in my college town that was filled with plenty of cute girls.
I opened with what's your opinion on what i should name my dog.... or the who lies more... etc... So a few times that I used these openers i would immediately get the reply from one of the girls (usually the ugly one that no one likes talking to...) "is this how you pick up girls?" or something along those lines... usually the target would say ignore her she's a bitch or something like that and they continue with the conversation. After she said that I said, "ha no if I were trying to pick up girls I would go over to those girls over there" or "watch out for the one with the attitude."
Conversation mingles for a little while, eventually leading nowhere because of that initial punch from the skank...
I guess my question is, this has happened a few times and is this normal or am I doing something that is obviously giving away what I want?
What are some good responses or better ways to initiate conversation so they do not respond with remarks like those? I am pretty new to this whole thing as I have really only gone out sarging maybe 4 times...
Any help would be appreciated! |
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Johnny rage
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if you direct your opener toward the uglies member of the group they are less likely to give you a hard time or cock block you  |
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wip
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wow, surprisingly in the exact same boat as you, from new to the game, just out of the relationship, even to the same reaction Its rough when you go in and you don't engage the whole group, just the one bitch giving you a shit test. and instantaneously lose the attention of the target. I mean i'm sure i sound like everything else but i think practice. I think practicing in easyer atmospheres might get better results.
last night i was at the bar at my school, everyone was there but it was wayy too loud, and it was like most people knew each other there, people just coming and going out of sets impossible to keep a targets attention. I leave and go to a slightly lower key bar, i opened a set great, but one girl called me out for using the ESP trick from the game and was called out for it, which didn't matter, the girl that called me out was like a 2, and the target had a boyfriend, which i know doesn't matter but my games not that tight yet.
my point is, I'm going to a party tonight, which is prob. alt better atmosphere to try these things out, and its with a sorority, so they've prob never read the game. So try to hit up a few parties, use that to get your game tight and maybe next time at the bar we can keep attention better... |
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kinoescalator
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Very easy solution, at least from getting called out in games like esp and 5 lies....field tested this and it solves it:
You: Hey, have u ever played that stupid esp game that guys play with girls in bars?
HB: (She either says yes or no...doesnt matter)
You: hahah lets play this is going to be fuckin halorius...
then play the game.
They cant call u out on it cause u allready called it out as a stupid bar game thats been played before. You could even replace the first line with "Hey i was at this place before and i saw this guy do this crazy game thing with this girl"......
Simple solution, i do this all the time and it solves the over used issue. |
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fohawk
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| What about the initial opening? I would approach and instantly a girl would be like, "is that how you pick up girls?" |
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