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Steve
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 Posted: Mon Mar 26, 2007 12:46 pm Post subject: How to proceed? |
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Ok, so I picked up this girl a few weeks ago. We had some fun the night we met then hooked up for a date about a week later... All went well but didn't seal the deal.
I arranged to meet her last night. As I was arriving, she text me to say she'd be a little late. I went and grabbed a coffee and told her where I'd gone so she could come find me. Anyway, time went on and no sign of her and I figured I'd look like a right chump sat round waiting for her and I have a thing about people being late anyway. So I left and text her to say that I'd gone to meet some friends and maybe we could hook up again when she's a little more punctual.
Anyway, when she got there she text to say she couldn't find me and stuff and anyway I was pretty much home by then. She kept texting saying how she wants to make it up to me and she's sorry etc
It's left that maybe we'll hook up some other time. Now I feel like I should potentially give her another go if she works hard for it, and that's going to involve her calling me first (or is it stupid to expect a girl to call you at all?)
Anyone got any thoughts on this? I figure that a good frame generally is how would I deal with this if I had a hundred women a day asking me out but then that isn't true and I wouldn't mind banging this bird.
Maybe I should ask her how she'd make it up to me? and then bust on her with that and make her really work for it?
Or just move on....?
I ain't done a Poll before so let's try that... |
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HutchN
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seems like she wasn't trying to be late for a test or cause she wasnt into you...so might as well keep the game going...but of course, don't let her off easy. If I were you I'd just make it dificult...or i guess fun...so REALLY hard to get.
YOU: "you are going to have to make it up to me"
HER: "okay what?"
YOU: "Well, if I get to choose, I want a 2 hour full body massage, a nice steak dinner, and a bed time story before you tuck me in to bed with a goodnight kiss, not necessarily in that order"
I took it from David D. I read it awhile ago, and I think it was said much better than that. |
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Duke23
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| Posted: Wed Mar 28, 2007 4:00 pm Post subject: |
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| I agree with Hutch here |
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OneManWonder
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| Posted: Wed Mar 28, 2007 5:24 pm Post subject: |
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I'd gone to meet some friends and maybe we could hook up again when she's a little more punctual.
I really like the last part "maybe we can hook up again when you are a little morepunctual.". Mind if I use this when i get flaked on ocaisionaly? |
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Steve
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| Posted: Thu Mar 29, 2007 4:09 pm Post subject: |
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All yours bud...
I'm moving on and will work it out if she calls me...
It's too early in the game to be getting caught up... |
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