this is what you call a flake man,
go out and meet more women, the first impression is important, if your first impression sucks and you are lacking a connection, you will probably still get the number just for asking, but it will lead to a girl not answering her phone, or it will lead to a texting buddy that never wants to meet you
how do you mitigate this problem to maximize results?
1) maximize your options, the more new women you meet on a regular basis the more you have to choose from
2) screen girls out that are not interested enough
3) try to figure out a good 10 things about the person and their life that you can remember and let them walk away knowing a few things about you, this increases the chance for that connection, that feeling of familiarity and rapport
4) text msg girls less often, just call or text a girl just like you would a guy friend, if it is normal for you to text up your guy friends for no reason other then conversations, go ahead and do so, but if it isn't, do the same, if you call your guy friends just to hang out and that is all, do the same with the girls, if they flake all the time, then your impression is sucking and there is something you need to work on
5) if you notice a girl flakes one time, next time you ask her out, call her, get her on the phone so she can't just not answer questions over text, the next time you invite her out what you do is you bait her into a qualifier, ''are you free today?'' before you ask her out, you can also do this as part of your screening in set before you leave the first time, qualify a girl to a date instead of asking for a phone number, the number will come as a result of a date, and you can set a date and time for the date, and qualify her with, ''are you sure that works for you?, no other plans that day?''
now, back to 2), what are some things to look for when screening?
1- girl willing to invest in the interaction after a sexual frame has been set (she is aware you have sexual interest and continues to want to talk)
2- she allows you to touch her in a meaningful way (can be as simple as hand holding, but she is aware of what you are doing and is compliant)
3- she is willing to be alone with you (can be tested at the venue, or tested after the fact via getting her out on a date, if she flakes in a pattern 3+ times, she does not screen for this one)
if the girl does not screen well for the above ^ it is highly likely she will be a waste of time and is currently unavailable/uninterested in sex with you, you can keep her on the line and slow game it encase she has a boyfriend or something and likes you but can't meet up due to some reason, but it's pretty much a waste of time, much easier to just meet new girls and get new numbers
the more volume of women you meet, the easier the whole process will become for you
also try not to fall in love with every new girl you meet before you have even really got to know them or made out with them, it will make this whole process pretty hard on you emotionally if you invest so much of yourself in every girl