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DeToX
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 Posted: Fri Jan 25, 2008 10:00 pm Post subject: How To Dance??!! |
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OK
So I'm out there looking smooth..
Have all my routines and openings prepared..
Then a good looking girl is starting to dance in front of me..
This situation i wasn’t prepared for..
I just don’t know how to dance with a girl!! I get all nervous and I don’t know how to move right I’m thinking DAMN If I can just talk to her that I don’t have problems with but then its already to late because she judged me on my dancing skills..
HOW do I fix this??
Following hip/hop classes can get you some rhythm and stuff but that’s not it!!
I can dance by myself but i wanna dance with the girl!! make her crazy!!
Were can i learn that?? im willing to practice a lot but i cant find a good video or workshop anything like that for ‘’club dancing’’
Im seriously I think when you are a good dancer you can easily start a course in club dancing!! or anything like that.. you will get a lot of subscribes and make money 
A LOT and I mean A LOT of guys out there need some practise how to move in a club..
Any Advice? |
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chadbaxter
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| observe what others do.. it's really not that difficult once you get it. I don't really dance to hip hop with or without a girl. I am more into house music, but grinding with a girl looks the same. Do you have girl friends that could teach you? I have many latina girl friends that have helped me improve. |
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mozyFresh
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| Posted: Fri Jan 25, 2008 11:38 pm Post subject: |
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Similar to what i gonna say chadbaxter.
Yeah it is more difficult to dance with a girl and do it well, especially if the girl is'nt a great dancer.
The way i learnt was by dancing with friends (girls) that aren't affraid of alot of touch and grinding. Practice makes perfect, the more you dance, the better you become.
What im gonna do is join a class when i got the time and the money, so i pick up some new steps, cus once you got that right the rest follows. I'd say look it up on the net, also join a class. |
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DeToX
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| Posted: Sat Jan 26, 2008 10:17 am Post subject: |
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| chadbaxter wrote: | | observe what others do.. it's really not that difficult once you get it. I don't really dance to hip hop with or without a girl. I am more into house music, but grinding with a girl looks the same. Do you have girl friends that could teach you? I have many latina girl friends that have helped me improve. |
I think that's a great advice i have some latina girlfriends they can teach me i guess.. only they cant teach me the really good ''male'' dancing.. i sometimes see some guys and (also when they are dancing alone) it kicks ass!! i know that is a natural talent but come on.. there has to be a way to learn that right?? And i followd dance classes (hip/hop and street) and well yeah i learned rhythem and stepps but not really the club dancing.. |
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Take some classes. There aren't any club dancing classes that I know of. I'm taking Theater Dance 1 this semester -- a combination of Jazz, Tap, and Ballet. Being able to actually -- I mean REALLY dance -- is actually an amazing way to DHV, it really sets you apart from everyone on the dance floor, meaning that the girl dancing with you will be set apart, and women will be fighting over you as their personal vehicle for validation. If you're nervous and don't know what to do when a girl wants to grind all over you, then knock back some alcohol: it will make you brave.
I believe in you. lol, cheers. |
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chadbaxter
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| DeToX wrote: | | chadbaxter wrote: | | observe what others do.. it's really not that difficult once you get it. I don't really dance to hip hop with or without a girl. I am more into house music, but grinding with a girl looks the same. Do you have girl friends that could teach you? I have many latina girl friends that have helped me improve. |
I think that's a great advice i have some latina girlfriends they can teach me i guess.. only they cant teach me the really good ''male'' dancing.. i sometimes see some guys and (also when they are dancing alone) it kicks ass!! i know that is a natural talent but come on.. there has to be a way to learn that right?? And i followd dance classes (hip/hop and street) and well yeah i learned rhythem and stepps but not really the club dancing.. |
Some guys are just born with it or have been doing it forever. Ask your friends to criticize you and how you could improve. You have to find out what you're doing wrong before you can correct it. Good luck |
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To be honest I think dancing is mostly a matter of inner game. I mean, if you want to do real dancing like ballet or tango then you'll have to practice of course, but the type of dancing that people do at clubs and parties is really simple.
I managed to do it pretty well last night, despite sucking at dancing for most of my life. I think the only thing different last night was that I was feeling very confident and really getting into the music, not caring about how I appeared to others. |
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DeToX
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| yellow wrote: | To be honest I think dancing is mostly a matter of inner game. I mean, if you want to do real dancing like ballet or tango then you'll have to practice of course, but the type of dancing that people do at clubs and parties is really simple.
I managed to do it pretty well last night, despite sucking at dancing for most of my life. I think the only thing different last night was that I was feeling very confident and really getting into the music, not caring about how I appeared to others. |
Yeah i cause your right there.. not caring about what others think of you would really help i guess.. but thats not really my point im okey with dancing by myself but i just freak out when the girl wants to grind or anything then i loose it..  and thats NOT what i want i wanna make her wild ofcourse!! And a lot of girls really think that when your'e a good dancer you are also good in bed (confirmed by several girls) |
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BillyWhiteSh0es
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It took me years to become proficient at dance.. I suggest you just go out a lot and practice.
I learned to pop and break first.. It teaches you rhythm. No, I don't generally do this style of dance when I'm out (unless I'm showing off), but the rhythm you learn can be applied. |
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I used to fear dancing and I was pretty horrible at it. For me, what it took to break through it was to get really drunk one night (not good for gaming) and go out on a crowded dance floor and giver'. If you go in the center of a busy dance floor nobody will notice you and truthfully nobody cares, they're usually too busy worrying how they look. Also watching music video's helped me as well. I love dancing now!
Hope this helps! |
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Like a few people said earlier... observe other people, and ask girls for help...
i just want to point out that there's nothing wrong with asking a guy for a tip or two either... it doesn't have to come off as "i suck at dancing and you don't so teach me..."
If you see something that you like, ask him how he did it just so u can see it again...
believe me, dancing isn't that hard... if you step back and look at everyone for a second and pretend that there is no music, they all look like idiots... you probably don't look much worse
if i personally had to give 2 tips to us guys-- make sure u don't have a stupid look on your face-- i'm not talking a face that looks like fun... i'm talking about that moron look that some really afc guys get....
2nd tip-- don't use your arms too much if you don't know what you're doing because you can end up looking like you're doing the chicken dance [link] |
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i'm not going to read the OP and just respond with this.
tell her to bend down and touch her toes get low get low |
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| Just ask those latina friends of yours, I'm sure they will teach you how to dance with a girl the right way. Ask them to teach you step by step by showing you with them dancing in front of you. I learned how by doing that, I'm actually still kinda horrible but it's always a great way to make girls laugh and that's always a good way to break the ice. Anyways just learn off latinas cuz mostly all of them know how to shake that ass. |
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| hawaiiangego wrote: | | Just ask those latina friends of yours, I'm sure they will teach you how to dance with a girl the right way. Ask them to teach you step by step by showing you with them dancing in front of you. I learned how by doing that, I'm actually still kinda horrible but it's always a great way to make girls laugh and that's always a good way to break the ice. Anyways just learn off latinas cuz mostly all of them know how to shake that ass. |
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| hawaiiangego wrote: | | Just ask those latina friends of yours, I'm sure they will teach you how to dance with a girl the right way. Ask them to teach you step by step by showing you with them dancing in front of you. I learned how by doing that, I'm actually still kinda horrible but it's always a great way to make girls laugh and that's always a good way to break the ice. Anyways just learn off latinas cuz mostly all of them know how to shake that ass. |
Hehe You got that right Only i dont wanna look like a fool i mean those latina girls are girls who i still date so is mostly them i want to dance with but i guess i can ask one of them.. Just the ''sweetest'' one and start up more of a ''friend'' relationship and then ask well teach how to dance.. |
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