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xfman
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 Posted: Wed Feb 20, 2008 12:36 am Post subject: How to Create Attraction in 5 min -> For MPUA |
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Community,
I see a lot of new faces around here, I want to say Hi to all the new guys. I know a lot of you might be hating me right now, because I didn't answered your PM or your questions, Sorry I took some time for myself. Anyway my website is back on track, I just added new posts and new things so be sure to check them out, for the ones that doesn't know it: [link]
So... How do you create attraction in 5 min ??
I got this question from one friend that is learning the arts; So to answer this question I will break out the attraction model and I will adapt it in my own way, and I will share some of the characteristics, tips and things I have learned from naturals and from experience.
The bar is ready you got a nice environment, the music might be a little too loud, but you got your friends , you got a great ratio and you can see a lot of potential girls that might have a shot with you...!
It all starts with Eye Contact and Body Language, these two things could get you laid, there is nothing sexier than a deep and powerful eye contact with the correct body language.
i could write a lot about body language and Eye contact but i guess You know the basics and i will keep it short with just these two tips:
Stand up Straight, Show confidence
Never look away, Hold eye contact
That will be the first 10 seconds of the interaction, when your about to approach, you give that little smile (Your the devil, dressed in a GQ suit) and deliver your opener.
Be natural, Hey! /Situational / Opinion opener / Introduce yourself, really the only barrier to open is breaking the silence, so just go in there and say anything.
Hey girls, you look friendly... (don't let them say anything) Hmmm interesting you look like a Lawyer and you look like a Designer, together we can make a show like the runaway project (REally the idea is to say anything that cross your mind in that moment, it takes time and balls to be good at it but you have to start with something.)
So you open and you start kino ,then you LOCK INTO THE SET !!! Make it look that they are gaming you, then you choose your target... and it is time to do some mirroring while you talk about why you think "Society is Wrong" or "What you will do to improve this Bar" hold eye contact, ask for her hand ...
Ewww... they are wet, oh wait a second, I have a degree in Palm Reading
read only one line and drop her hand...
"You know (Name) when I first saw you,I thought you were like a polly pocket, you were all about fashion and looks, but something inside me tell me that you might not be THAT airhead, (She will give you the LOOK)... I have always be a really intuitive person and something DEEP INSIDE tell me that you might be an interesting person... but I'm not sure... (Turn your body away like if you were about to leave) Is there anything about you beside your looks?? ( Hurry up you only got like 1 minute left) She will say things about yourself... You have to throw a SOI about one of her qualities.... and There you go
Attraction in less than 5 min. I will post a walk-through list tomorrow.
Success, XFMAN |
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| Posted: Wed Feb 20, 2008 1:43 am Post subject: |
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| Awesome post XF! |
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kbell
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| Never break eye contact? Isn't it creepy to continually stare at someone? |
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| Note He did say, Eye contact and body language.. when you put off the right eye contact down women will know, make sure you smile behind it dont stare/glare at the woman w/o smiling. |
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L.A. Tripp
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Right Juice.
kbell, it's not creepy unless you DO do a staredown. If she doesn't break eye contact, because she's trying to act not intimidated, then crack a smile, or do something that will force her to break her composure. Don't break eye contact, just throw her a curve ball to force her to break. |
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kbell
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| Like stick out your tongue than smile? Or make a funny face? I guess this is a more direct way of gaming, since it doesn't seem indirect. |
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| Posted: Thu Feb 21, 2008 3:24 pm Post subject: |
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| thanks XF, btw i enjoyed your nlp report |
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xfman
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| Posted: Fri Feb 22, 2008 1:01 am Post subject: Guide to Proper Eye Contact |
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Maybe I didn't made myself clear. I was trying to say , never look away when you catch eye contact with a lady. But any way read this great post:
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Guide to Proper Eye Contact
People see everything which is within their focus of the eye. You see everything you see. Sounds stupid, but you see more than you see. It’s that way: You can see you computers monitor very clearly because your attention is on the monitor. Now it is not only the monitor you see? You see all the surroundings too. Maybe there are speakers, a keyboard a mouse, whatever. You see that stuff though you do not concentrate on it. You do not need to shift you attention to see it, you see it by just looking at the monitor but you consider it not interesting, because it is not moving or has no boobs. This has partly to do with Awareness Radius. So if you want to inform yourself about Awareness Radius, do that – it will enhance you game a lot!
Okay, so imagine a girl in a bar. She is sitting there chatting with her friend in a semi-interesting conversation. If the conversation was really interesting her AR would be only on herself and her friend, but as it is only semi-interesting she realizes all her surroundings, though she consciously is not giving them any attention. Now a real AFC comes in. He moves and therefore she unconsciously checks him out. She doesn’t even know that she is doing that, she keeps on talking to her friend. As it is an AFC she will not move hear head or eyes an inch. A second person comes in, he has a good BL and one might consider him immediately as an HSE person. This time her unconscious mind wakes up her conscious mind and tells to look into the direction of that handsome stranger and check him out whether he is material for sex or not. One might say he has charisma, but broken down charisma is just a mixture of BL, AR, social skills and a good InnerGame. Nothing special, anyone can get that. So this post is about the EC Element of such a charismatic person. It would be best to inform yourself about BL and AR because these two elements help you with your EC and vice versa. It is not obligatory, but you might want to do that.
This Technique is split in two parts, the Beginners Editions and the Mastery Edition. Everybody should do the Beginners Edition. It’s not complicated and broken down in 10 simple rules which you MUST follow. Usually I hate to say that something is a must because it contradicts the idea of calibrating and being in the moment. But about everybody has deep wired anchors on his EC and it needs some force to break these. One of these anchors is that you look away once the EC of a HB9 touches your eyes. So please please follow the instructions until you know what you are doing and how you are doing it.
Continue reading (Beginners Edition and Mastery Edition):
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good post and nice replys
Thanx |
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When you talk to girls, eye contact should be playful. Your face should be relaxed with a hint of a grin, and an occasional smile if you are speaking.
Same thing when she's speaking, she'll look at you when she's talking, and she'll see if you look away first. This is a subconscious shit test on her part. Most men she meets in her life will look away. If you do not look away, but hold the stare, she will become intrigued at the very least if not outright attracted just because you have the balls to meet her stare. Remember, it's not a "stare" per se, it's locking eyes and being playful with that eye contact.
If you have to look away, or you get that itch in your eyelid to blink, look to the upper right or upper left. Do not look down. |
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