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NOILLUSION
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 Posted: Wed Apr 23, 2008 6:05 pm Post subject: How to act toward your target's friends? |
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I remember in this relationship I had awhile ago, my ex's girl friend was a total disapproving bitch to me throughout the 8 months or so that we were together. I didn't do anything to deserve her dislike except go out with her best friend.
If it comes up again, how do I deal with it?
how do I get them to approve of me? Should I game them? or act like a nice guy and purposely get friend-zoned by them? I mean, should I appear attractive to them or boring?
It's really funny, cus once I went on a date with this girl and she brought her girlfriend along, and her friend was the one asking all the questions about me like, "are you a player?" "are you this, are you that? what do you like to do? I'm like wtf.. chill out. |
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c_n12
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| Posted: Wed Apr 23, 2008 10:49 pm Post subject: |
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Be a man - call her out on her bullshit. Be the alpha male who doesn't take shit from anyone, lives for himself first and just brings women along for the ride. Think of how James Bond would handle your situation.
As for the player question, that is easily fielded. As you're probably aware neither "Um… yea" nor "OH-NONONONONO!!" are any good to respond to with. What you want to say is something along the lines of this:
"I enjoy getting to know a woman who is intelligent, natural, and who has a child-like curiosity for life. And when I meet such a woman, I would want to enjoy all that life has to offer together with her. And for me there is nothing finer then feeling that incredible connection with someone that you feel so very close to."
Then BAM! You've just made her feel even better while avoiding a direct answer.
Also realize that being known as a ladies man is good thing with some women, but not others, but having her wonder is probably better than either - It maintans a sense of mystery.
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Killians
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| Posted: Wed Apr 23, 2008 11:15 pm Post subject: |
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You want to be a fun guy who is generally interested in her friends. When the girl brought her friend along you should have said something like, "I am so honored to get the opportunity to meet one of your good friends." Introduce yourself with confidence and take control over the conversation. She shouldnt have been sitting there grilling you.
Remember: If you want to get the girl's approval you have to get the approval from her friends first. Our friends mean a lot to us and its hard to be with a guy our friends don't like. |
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