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 Posted: Sun Sep 23, 2007 11:06 pm Post subject: how do u sarge when u have friends who are AMOG's |
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this weekend i have been hanging out with 2 of my friends from school we went to the mall twice and they are not necessarily AMOG's but they are both naturals at the game.
My dillemma is i see plenty of sets but im scared to get embarassed in front of them i kno the only way to get better is to practice but idk lol.
and if we engage in a set should i try to out AMOG them?
plzz give any kind of suggestions thanks |
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Advice
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| Posted: Mon Sep 24, 2007 12:36 am Post subject: look at it this way |
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| mentally, you're approaching them wrong... you have the mind set that hey I'm gonna go pull this set on them, I hope I don't embarass myself or forget what I'm gonna say and look dumb... you need to be thinking, "hey, here are some beautiful girls, I'm gonna go chat them up and give one, hell maybe two of them the pleasure of being with me, I'm gonna give them the experience of their life tonight!!" Have balls to walk away from them, they show disinterest you break off and ditch them, you ever heard of a girl getting pissed off b/c the guy she was with dumped her before she could dump him, same shit here... if you wanna pick up girls you gotta learn its a numbers game, the more you go after the more you're gonna get... by not going and spittin to them your not gonna have a chance anyhow... you got your wingman with you anyway so it should be easier... |
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PrettyBoy41
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| Posted: Mon Sep 24, 2007 2:08 am Post subject: |
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| when the 3 of you approach a set, keep the conversation open to the group, try to isolate the target by keeping her out of the convo or interupting when someone asks her a question. finally, recognize her existance, appologize for ingnoring her and ask her if she'd like to sit down or something. |
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xfman
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| Posted: Mon Sep 24, 2007 2:16 am Post subject: |
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In my opinion you have to be ready to defend yourself if your "friends" try to AMOG you in the field. Check this post it might help you:
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Click on AMOG Prevention |
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JMart
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| Posted: Mon Sep 24, 2007 2:55 am Post subject: |
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| PrettyBoy41 wrote: | | when the 3 of you approach a set, keep the conversation open to the group, try to isolate the target by keeping her out of the convo or interupting when someone asks her a question. finally, recognize her existance, appologize for ingnoring her and ask her if she'd like to sit down or something. |
Classic MM, and yes it does work.....i just started actually using this stuff and before i read The Game my 2 friends would ALWAYS beat me out no matter what girl i was going for after trying some of the stuff out on here i pull more girls in a night than both of them combined.......now they want me to teach them or at least tell them the book i read.......i definitely wont teach them but i may refer them to some books and after a while i might even give them some websites to try out haha........but after all of the shit talking they did to me about having to read books to pick up girls i might just tell them fuck you lol........but yeah im rambling let me get back on track lol just stick to your game and open sets like you normally would
and it sounds like you might be having AA if thats the case then try some exercises to get than anxiety out of your head.....like the classic saying hi to everyone you see.....read up on that if you have anymore questions
but thats just my $0.02
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Chikito
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| Posted: Mon Sep 24, 2007 3:20 am Post subject: |
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This used to happen to me when i started.
I just dropped sarging with those friends. I went out and found a wing man. Someone just as intrested in sarging as me. I spent hours in the field with that wingman. When you go through so much personal change together you will strike up a strong friendship, you always will when you go through personal change. I got relatively good at sarging, got alot of confidence and was really comfortable in clubs. Then I started going out with my friends who werent PUA's. Told them i'd been going through alot of personal change and told them a little about what PUA is about. They laughed, and we went out. I got laid that night, and that was the end of them AMOGing me. Now they wana know my secrets  |
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SleazyE
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| Posted: Tue Oct 09, 2007 6:55 pm Post subject: AMOG friends |
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| My question to you is: Why do you want to roll with friends like that? Are they even your friends? If they are judging you or making fun of you for attempting to pick up chicks it sounds like they are trying to compensate for what they're lacking. With friends like that you're better off on your own. You don't need friends to pick up chicks. When I was younger I really cared about that but as I'm older I really don't care who I'm around. When I'm out, especially if I'm going to pick up women, I only have about 3 or 4 friends that I go out to pick up women and most of the time I just hang out with one friend at the time. Works better too because girls are usually in pairs and if you're rolling with a pack of wolves, girls get intimidated and it probably won't go as far. |
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