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Ipawnu
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 Posted: Wed Oct 07, 2009 3:12 am Post subject: High school freshmen needs help... |
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| Hi. I am a freshmen in an all boys high school. I ussually see girls at football games every Friday. I am not that "hot" and have acne and shit. I know all the popular kids and can hang out with them while they talk to girls but I never say anything. Basically, i need help approaching girls in a group. Also, any help in general is needed. Thanks![/list] |
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aaliya831
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| Posted: Wed Oct 07, 2009 5:40 am Post subject: . |
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| hey men i am in the 12 grade i go 2 a high school 2. if u need help u have to reed some books first , like ''The game'' that's a good book , and that should get u started |
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Ipawnu
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| Posted: Wed Oct 07, 2009 11:08 am Post subject: |
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| Who's it by or can u give me an amazon link |
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James Roday
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| Posted: Wed Oct 07, 2009 3:03 pm Post subject: |
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The Game is by Neil Strauss, it's basically a must for PUA forums as it gives an overview of the different styles and what they are used for.
On top of that, I suggest Conquer your Campus by Mark Redman as that is the most relevant to the sort of school game you hope to be running. If memory serves me correctly, Grape and a few of his friends made a HighSchool PUA handbook, so hit him up via PM and see if he still has it lying around.
Don't focus on gaming man, just have fun, it's early years. |
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Ipawnu
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| Posted: Wed Oct 07, 2009 6:56 pm Post subject: |
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| Alrite thanks, still loooking for advice |
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roxstar
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| Posted: Wed Oct 14, 2009 3:56 am Post subject: |
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| Well, what specifically do you want to work on? Gimme a couple goals, I'll help you work towards them =] |
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Owinover
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| Posted: Thu Oct 15, 2009 12:35 am Post subject: |
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First of all, all of your friends are virgins too.
second, practice approaching EVERY FUCKING WOMAN who comes into contact with you for like a week. Do the newbie mission. Don't sarge in school until you're comfortable building a social network, because if you fuck up early, it's hard to recover |
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Girlfriendofapua
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| Posted: Thu Oct 15, 2009 5:26 am Post subject: |
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| It doenst matter if your not "hot" as you say. If you have the confidence and are a charmer/funny guy it really doesnt matter what you look like. Giulrs are not as scary as you seem to think. We are just humans too! Talk to girls the way you would talk to your mates- just make them friends for now if your worried about the whole dating thing. |
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Kaj15
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| Posted: Fri Nov 06, 2009 6:21 pm Post subject: |
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Social proof baby. Build connections, go to coolest parties, make friends with the coolest guys, care about your friends, create events like night-outs, going to clubs.
How you look doesn't matter that much. And of course, hangout with girls constantly and you'll soon notice other girls react like: ''Hey he doesn't look that great but all the girls are around him...he must be somebody special!
Hope it helps,
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Msquared;]
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second, practice approaching EVERY FUCKING WOMAN who comes into contact with you for like a week. Do the newbie mission. Don't sarge in school until you're comfortable building a social network, because if you fuck up early, it's hard to recover | Quote: |
YESSSSS. This is where I realized I fucked up. Big time. You first need to talk to girls you arent gonna see ever again to build up your game. Just make small talk and get out. If you feel confident enough then you could go for the number if not then just make small talk. 3 weeks ago I remember running into a girl at a bar that goes to my school. Im in high school but I have connections to get inot places like those. Anyways, I was drunk out of my mind and was doing things I wouldnt normally be doing when I was sober.
I was just chillin with my buddies and I saw this girl. She looked real familair and I realized I go to school with her. I was hugging her grabbing her and whatnot. Very stupid because hats not my natural personality when im sober. So I see her at school approach her and all of a sudden for no fucking reason I become anxious as fuck. The interaction went well but I sufered a trauma. And now im scared to even see her. So, sarge girls that dont go to your school and once you get comfortable interacting with girls overall then start sarging at school.
Didnt want to give you a whole fucking story but this is from experience. It might not apply to all but it might apply to some. Also, if your having enxieties,insecurities, and fears working on your "Inner game" is a must to help you become the best guy you can be.
Good luck and dont spend your whole high school career just trying to pick up chicks. Just have fun and everythign will fall into place.
Good luck bro |
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Don Juan 89
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Get some friends to go up to a group with you. It will give you some confidence.
I also had acne in high school. It sucked. Ask your parents to maybe take you to a dermatologist or simply go to your local pharmacy to get some acne products. Just be careful because some acne products can ruin the color of your clothes. Very effective though.
You may want to focus on groups of girls at first, but you can also talk to an entire group of people with both girls and guys. Just try to talk about cool things that interest people your age. You might even make some new guy friends.
Just remember that you can do it!  |
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