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Viziondfc PUA Forum Enthusiast
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Posted: Mon Nov 05, 2007 5:40 am Post subject: Hey guys. |
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Well as most of you will notice i'm new, I have pretty terrible spelling and grammar and I'm new to the PUA phenom. I made a post in the introduce yourself thread please feel free to take a look at that. I'm just looking for some advice in a current situation, here is the scenario.
Last night a few buddies and myself went into a local restaurant for some dinner, a cute waitress probably around a 7.5 was serving us and since I've been somewhat studying the game as of late I figured I would try a number close I got from, you guessed it! Mystery. The conversation goes as follows.
(The waitress was going to run our cards through the machine and what not)
Suede(Roommate): "Hey man, you should get her number she is really vibing you"
Vizion: "I dunno man, she is at work and I wouldn't want to bother her at work."(My insecure ways and sense of not wanting to feel rejection instantly kicked in when he said this to me)
Suede: "It doesn't matter that she is at work get her number"
Vizion: "hmmm"
Fuzzy(roommate2): "You wont do it you pussy blah blah blah" (this is always the negative guy to have in the group and wouldn't be real fun to go sarging with)
Vizion: "I'm gonna fucking do it I know exactly what I'm going to say"
(Waitress returns)
Vizion: "Let me ask you something, how creative are you?"
Waitress: "Hmmm I'd like to think I'm pretty creative."
(I take my receipt and the pen and give them to her)
Vizion: "Ok, draw me something."
(Waitress draws a fairly decent smiley face)
Vizion "Hmm, thats neat but I was thinking something more along the lines of this"
(Takes the paper and writes 7 dashes to simulate a number of sorts)
(Waitress giggles)
Waitress: "Is this more along the lines of what you were looking for?"
(waitress writes her phone number down on the paper and gives it back with a huge smile on her face)
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Yes I know this is an unorigional number close and I know it was risky to use this seeming as how Mysteries VH1 show had been a pretty big hit but I figured what the hell I'd give it a shot and it worked!
Now i'm sorry for this very long annoying post but I really want to make sure that the sitution is in detail lol (Hell Style did it in the book why can't I).
Ok, so now I have this girls number whom I am attracted too, I'm not sure what to do with it... When do I call her, what do I say? Any help would be appreciated. |
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Posted: Mon Nov 05, 2007 5:48 am Post subject: |
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| call her within the next 3 days, anytime, it doesnt matter, just dont wait too long, keep the phone convo short and sweet, set up a meeting like at a coffee shop or something neutral to talk and get to know eachother |
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Viziondfc PUA Forum Enthusiast
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Posted: Mon Nov 05, 2007 6:05 am Post subject: |
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| Awesome thanks for the tip. |
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Posted: Mon Nov 05, 2007 2:39 pm Post subject: |
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Hey man don't be too hard on yourself - I think your post was nicely written. I don't mean to sound negative when I say this but there will be a chance that it's a flake. All though you attracted her enough to give you her phone number all you did was making her attracted to you - you didn't get to know her.
Call and arrange a meeting but don't fell bad if it's a flake. Otherwise keep it short and call her before she forgets you.
Good luck in your efforts:) |
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Viziondfc PUA Forum Enthusiast
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Posted: Mon Nov 05, 2007 3:20 pm Post subject: |
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| Thanks again for the input. I'm used to girls being flakes... however she seemed pretty down to earth so we'll see... I think I like the idea of getting her number and having her be a flake then not getting her number at all... I will keep you guys posted. |
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