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toefooplzzzed
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 Posted: Sun Sep 30, 2007 6:56 pm Post subject: help a newbie out!!! |
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| alright my main deal is, after an opener what do i do? i mean what else is there to do?? how do i keep going on? |
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shurgs
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| Posted: Sun Sep 30, 2007 7:38 pm Post subject: |
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LOL;
there is so much to do man...
but the opener just starts the conversation...
HERES WHAT YOU DONT WANT TO DO NEXT
>ask her name (this comes later, once she asks your name)
>ask where she is from, what she does,(these questions come later- during the small talk/ fluffing stage)
>DONT say i like you, you are cute, anything that telegraphs interest(this comes later if you show interest to soon you seem needy and you will lose her)
>DONT focus on your target if there are others around( if your target has friends with her focus on them especially the ugly ones, if you focus on you target the others girls will get broed and make her leave you)
HERES WHAT U CAN DO;
tell them a brief funny story
perform a routine (ESP test, Best friends, a magic trick, etc...)
tell her after the above two i see you are pretty, but what else do you have going for yourself...(here you are making her validate her slf to you increasing your DHV.
Then if everything is going well you should now begin to build KINO-
and so on and so on...
if you have questions let me know |
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needhelpbad
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| Posted: Mon Oct 01, 2007 12:55 am Post subject: |
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| shurgs wrote: | LOL;
there is so much to do man...
but the opener just starts the conversation...
HERES WHAT YOU DONT WANT TO DO NEXT
>ask her name (this comes later, once she asks your name)
>ask where she is from, what she does,(these questions come later- during the small talk/ fluffing stage)
>DONT say i like you, you are cute, anything that telegraphs interest(this comes later if you show interest to soon you seem needy and you will lose her)
>DONT focus on your target if there are others around( if your target has friends with her focus on them especially the ugly ones, if you focus on you target the others girls will get broed and make her leave you)
HERES WHAT U CAN DO;
tell them a brief funny story
perform a routine (ESP test, Best friends, a magic trick, etc...)
tell her after the above two i see you are pretty, but what else do you have going for yourself...(here you are making her validate her slf to you increasing your DHV.
Then if everything is going well you should now begin to build KINO-
and so on and so on...
if you have questions let me know |
a couple of things
1. why would you not ask for her name?
2. performing routines, wouldn't a girl think like you're some sort of freak?? |
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.EnVy.
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| Posted: Mon Oct 01, 2007 1:07 am Post subject: |
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You don't ask for the name 'cause
that's what an AFC usually does.
How would you feel if you were a
girl, and some guy walks up to you
and first thing he says is "Hey, I'm
Josh. What's your name?"
You'd think that he's a loser, right?
Same thing applies here. Let HER ask
YOU for YOUR name--not the other way
around.
And she won't know that you'll
be preforming techniques; she'll
think that you're just a cool guy
hanging out. That's the beauty of
picking up women: nobody knows
you're doing it but you!  |
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