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summer_guy_uk
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 Posted: Sun Mar 16, 2008 10:42 am Post subject: HB9 on train, now wants to meet. |
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Hey guys, hope your all getting successes 
Met a girl at the trainstation and we got talking after our trains platform got switched.
We were joking etc for half hour before our train arrived and I DHV'ed and when we got on the train she expected me to sit next to her and she was facing me the entire journey.
I # closed and did the "kiss goodbye + point" thing and as soon as i got off the train she texted me saying
"Its so nice to have met a cute non-crazy guy for a change! im gonna be bored for the rest of the train ride now!"
We txted back n forth a lil then i left it.
Next morning i texted saying if shes feelign adventerous, she asked me whats on my mind, i said coffee, she said maybe, so i negged her then she said shed been spiked and wasnt feeling well.
So i ignored.
She texted me again saying what i want to do then i texted her saying id call her sumtime when shes in a better mood
She texted back "your mean"
Fast forward today, i called her and she said she was supposed to be at work 10 minutes ago, i said id call her sum other time.
Now what?
Do i hope she calls me on her break?
Should i leave a txt for her break?
Do i wait for next weekend?
I'm thinking of getting her on the train and up here for tonight for a couple drinks. |
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Okiokdan
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| Posted: Sun Mar 16, 2008 11:23 am Post subject: |
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Reading the text messages and how, actually, good the first approach was, I wouldn't be too needy at this point. Though, you said you'd call, you could probably call after her shift is done and then meet up tonight. You'd never now, maybe she calls/text you in her break!
Good luck mate! |
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summer_guy_uk
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| Posted: Sun Mar 16, 2008 2:26 pm Post subject: |
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i txt her saying to give me ashout on her break.
looks like i fucked up lol.
how to salvage?
text again saying to ignore last text cus im doing summin else? |
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summer_guy_uk
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| Posted: Sun Mar 16, 2008 5:04 pm Post subject: |
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| I think i'll call her at around 7 when she finishes as she hasnt texted me yet! |
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Okiokdan
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I wouldn't do that imho. She didn't gave you a text or w/e when she had her break. Why would you even call her after that? Use punishment and reward (dont remember the exact sentence lol). Like you said, she already wants to meet YOU! Don't fuck it up by being too needy and clingy 
You can even call her out that. You can say something like: "After I didn't heard from you, I made some other plans."
Give her a small freeze and call tomorrow. Let us know what happened!
GL |
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summer_guy_uk
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| Posted: Mon Mar 17, 2008 9:45 pm Post subject: |
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Called her after work.
said she could buy me a drink etc made her giggle, i said wednesday, she said shes working so i said id give her a shout another time.
Probably call her on the weekend. |
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Nice job man.
For things like when you ask to hang out when you know she probably can't or won't, I usually say something like actually scratch that I'm busy then, maybe some other time and play it like she wanted to hang out and you were the one that couldn't. |
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