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Nova
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 Posted: Wed Sep 26, 2007 4:26 am Post subject: HB6 definitely interested, need help closing |
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There's this girl that's on my dorm floor (I'm in college) and we've gotten to know each other mainly from that and seeing each other at frats. Every time I see her she's all over me. It's even gotten to the point where she'll come to me just to give me a hug. I feel I've been negging at the right times. For example today she runs up to me and hugs me:
Me:Why is your hair wet?
HB6: I just got out of the shower. I'm all nice and clean
Me: If you're so clean how come I feel so dirty?
HB6: *Giggles and hugged me tighter*
She loved it. Anyway I definitely think I can close with her (I already got her number so k-close or possibly even f-close) I just don't really know how to go about it. Any suggestions? |
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SouthernCross
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6 ≠ HB
6 = UG
raise your standards
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xxIcexx
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| Posted: Wed Sep 26, 2007 4:45 am Post subject: |
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| SouthernCross wrote: | 6 ≠ HB
6 = UG |
dont listen to this guy, he obviously has high standards and doesnt meet them too often
ummm next time you see her set up a date and take it from there, or you can skip the date and invite her to your dorm for a movie, she already hugs you so you can cuddle easily
you should knwo what to do from there |
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SouthernCross
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| Posted: Wed Sep 26, 2007 4:50 am Post subject: |
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| xxIcexx wrote: |
dont listen to this guy, he obviously has high standards and doesnt meet them too often
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Yeah your mom was the last draw |
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xxIcexx
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| Posted: Wed Sep 26, 2007 5:00 am Post subject: |
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| SouthernCross wrote: | | xxIcexx wrote: |
dont listen to this guy, he obviously has high standards and doesnt meet them too often
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Yeah your mom was the last draw |
how old are we 12? your mom joke died in the 7th grade
grow up, its 2007 |
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Holden
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| Posted: Wed Sep 26, 2007 5:43 am Post subject: |
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Alright children, simmer.
As for the HB6, as said. Plan to "Hangout" some day then take it from there and apply the basics, she's obviously into you, you've just got to follow the steps now. |
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Mech
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| Posted: Wed Sep 26, 2007 3:17 pm Post subject: |
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| SouthernCross wrote: | 6 ? HB
6 = UG
raise your standards |
Or he could just call every 6 an 8 to look good in front of his internet buddies! |
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alexandros
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| Posted: Wed Sep 26, 2007 4:20 pm Post subject: |
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| SouthernCross wrote: | 6 ≠ HB
6 = UG
raise your standards |
shouldnt we start on lower standard, and gradually working towards 10 as we get more experience? |
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yenwen
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| Posted: Wed Sep 26, 2007 4:32 pm Post subject: |
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| Who really cares about how high or low his standards are? He obviously has a thing for her. He's here to get help on landing this chick. So, people should be helping him instead of flaming him for liking the chick. |
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Nova
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| I just figure it's a good start. She's not terrible looking and I know one of my weakest areas is closing. Since she already has a thing for me I figure it would be a good boost of confidence, give me some experience, and give me an idea of what I need to do. I feel more comfortable around her than I would an 8,9 or 10 so that's where I'm starting. |
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SouthernCross
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| Posted: Wed Sep 26, 2007 7:38 pm Post subject: |
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Gaming 6's will not really prepare u for HB9's and above.
This is not a video game u dont want to start at level 1
you want to start at level 8
HB's have much more experience with rejecting men.
U should talk to everyone to improve ur abilities but HB9 and a 6 are worlds apart |
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Holden
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| Posted: Wed Sep 26, 2007 7:42 pm Post subject: |
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I disagree with SCross.
HB6 are very easy when you know all the basics, because honestly they don't have a high level game. They're kinda "the naturals" of the female world. So their psychology will automatically bring forth tests on you like shit tests, LMR, value gambits, etc.
Experience is experience. We're not talking about setting up LTR's here, we're talking about beginners getting better at their game. |
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SouthernCross
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| Posted: Wed Sep 26, 2007 9:07 pm Post subject: |
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Holden ur disagreeing just to disagree
I never said don't talk to 6's talk to everybody
6's and 8-10's have entirely different mentalities.
6's don't respond the same to negs they're more likely to take offense to them.
Masta Shake u say more comfortable talking to 6's than an 8. That's because their Looks are still overwhelming to u. In actuality 8's and above are easier to talk to than 6's or lower because u can get away with a lot more attitude and negging and not have to worry about them taking offense. Ur going to have to talk to 8's and 9's eventually.
U can do like I do and pretend like every girl is an UG and treat them as such especially the 10's. That'll help u move up |
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Nova
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| Thanks for the advice and I really wish I could see girls like that, but at this stage I don't unless I'm drunk in which case there would be no way I could ever spit good game. I'm definitely gonna work on it though. I can see your point |
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Chikito
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Ok since no one seems to be particularly helping our poor help seeker in this thread, I shall.
It doesnt matter if shes a 6 or a 10 shes a woman and he's a man. The PU is basically the same, however from what I gather in this thread I doubt you have experience with 9-10's so there is absolutly nothing wrong with picking up a 6.
| Quote: | | I just don't really know how to go about it. Any suggestions? |
Ok it looks like she's already attracted to you and I cant tell if your playing it cool or if she knows yet if your into her or not. Anyway if you haven't done that yet, do that first. You could straight out tell her but also follow it up with a question that makes her aware that you are the one she needs to win over.
eg:
"Wow when we first met i thought you were kinda lame. But it turns out your actually pretty awsome, but still lame. Tell me why arent you lame?"
(That was a poor example but you get the gist)
Now you need to build comfort and trust with her. Dating, im guessing your both kinda new to campus, go out and experience new things together. Nothing beats building comfort and trust with a person than experiencing new things together. Spend time with her get to know her, tell her deeper storys. Open up. BUT MOST IMPORTANT! Touch her! looks like you got the cuddles down already thats good news. Any touching is good from now on (non-sexual) holding hands, touching her face, pillow fights all sorts of stuff is good fun and good for comfort building.
After a while you can kiss her, try not to make a big deal about it, it needs to seem like a regular thing. Work from there.
Go to your room to watch a movie or play twister whatever. And start more serious stuff. Kissing, making out feeling around. At some point between taking off her shirt and taking off her panties (different for each woman) she will freeze up on you and start throwing resistance at you. The best way to deal with this is to build alot of comfort and trust in the begining but if that couldnt happen just pretend to agree while you carry on undressing her. I have no idea what your knowledge of pick up is like, so ill assume you know very little so I make sure i dont miss anything. Im talking about phrases like "i think were going too fast" or "what about your parents?" (example)
If they keep happening just stop half way through foreplay and turn on the lights and check your emails. Then return to her and she will be begging. Repeat if it keeps occuring.
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You could do it this way |
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