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Listen man this is some advice that most guys never understand, its not her you need to worry about its him! See a women can think she won't cheat, she can tell you she won't cheat, she can even tell her self she wont cheat, but it means nothing if the guy she is hanging out with is smooth enough, and knows how to play with a women's emotions. We are all capable of cheating, the difference between someone who cheats and someone who does not is that people who don't cheat will not put them self's in situation were they could cheat. Women who understand that they are capable of cheating won't hang out with guys alone while they are in a relationship unless your value to them is very low! they would not risk cheating and or loosing you, on the other hand women who think "I could never cheat" are often the ones who put them self in bad situations....this is not to say that your gf is a bad person, she is just naive, and ignorant! If she understood that men only hang out with girls who they either want a relationship or want to fuck, she wouldn't be hanging out with this guy.
So like I said its not her I would be worried about, its him. This guy probably has some kind of plan to win over your gf, but luckly for you he will prob mess it up by being a total afc....the thing is what if he was not an afc? what if he was a natural alpha or even worse a pick up artist! A few drinks and the right comments could lead to your gf cheating, its always a possibility!
Why does this happen? well its because women make decisions based on emotions, women use the creative emotional side of the brain, and men the logical side (this is an actual fact). So when you think "I'm not going to cheat because I have to much to loose" that is you being logical, but when a women says it her word means very little, she is only saying it because that is how she feels at the time, but perhaps after a couple drinks an alpha can spark her interest, put her on an emotional roller coaster! and the next thing she knows she is banging the dude.
Men cheat based on a logical scale (Its it worth is?, is it worth me loosing my gf for this women?)
Women cheat based on how they feel in the moment (Omg, it just happend! I cant explain it, he made me feel butterfly's, it was not my fault it was his).
See what I am getting at? I don't want you to over react but you need to understand that men and women think very differently! so what makes sens to you makes no sens to a women!
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Nice post dude! Well said.
He is right. I wouldn't worry to much about your GF. Worry about that other loser motherfucker afc. He has been friends with your girl for a while, and still hasn't fucked her? Even before you? Yeah he is a loser. BUT i wouldn't count him out. Maybe he will get a hold of a pua book or find out about our community? haha
Nah but really don't but to much thought in it, but just keep it moving, find some friends to hang out with while she is with her loser afc friend. Maybe another chick?
Make sure you don't show signs of jealousy. You WILL lose value if you do. Trust me. In like 5% of cases do a girl think its cute, and about 95% of the time it makes you look desperate, unattractive, and decreases your value.