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Facher
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 Posted: Thu Apr 03, 2008 3:20 pm Post subject: Handling a teasy girlfriend. |
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Note: I'm not a noob here, but since we got a postlimit on the other boards I am forced to post it in this section =/.
Lately, my girlfriend (thanks, game!) have been a bit annoying. Teasing me. The problem is not that she is teasing me, but it is that I don't really know how to handle it.
Today she took the lock to my locker (at school) and reused to give it back to me.
Me: Give it back to me^^
Her: Haa, what do I get?
Me: Come here.. *pulling her in a bit* *kiss*
Her: *pulling away after the kiss* Haha
I know I couldn't force her to give it to me, so I told my mate to get his extra-lock out of his bag and lock my locker. He complied, then my GF put my lock in my pocket. I walked away.
Yeah, I showed her that I actually can lead my friends etc, and I don't make a big deal out of small things. Still, it feels really bad, like I don't have any power.
Is there any ways to stop this kind of childish teasing of happening, or to stop it in action?
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Chino Kapone
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The post limit is so that many of the newer members who join the forum learn to search things out concerning their questions, because often times their questions can be answered by using the search function.
Ok, on to your question. By letting it bother you you are giveing her the power. Just freeze her out in that situation. Display that it doesnt bother you and ask your friend for the lock. She will be dissapointed that you didnt jump through her hoops, and the end up giving you your lock back. At that point you can kiss her.
By kissing her while she is doing something that you dissaprove of is giving her the power and letting her its ok to treat you like that. Relationships are often times like puppy training. Would you pet your puppy and tell them good dog after they shit on your floor? No, because its unnacceptable behavior. Do the same with your chick.
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Facher
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| Posted: Fri Apr 04, 2008 4:54 am Post subject: |
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| Ah, a moment of clarity =P, thanks mate. |
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Okiokdan
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Agreed with See Kay. But if she teases you, you've got to tease her back twice as hard.
I would have done something like this:
"Me: Give it back to me^^
Her: Haa, what do I get?
Me: You'll get a kiss
Her: *giving you your lock back after she teased you with it*
Me: Thanks(without kissing her)*and be busy with your locker w/e* OR Yea in your dreams ^^"
She will think "Ahh you're mean!" Just give her false hope of getting a kiss.
Don't be such a serious person, she's making fun of you and you're giving her the power. Tease her like an animal, don't worry she can handle it! She will actually be more attracted to you! Don't overdo it though if it really annoys her. Get to know her, and your limits.
GL |
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Class..
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dude do the same thing 2 her, steal HER lock and dont give it back, or go 1 better and take her phone, diary, or even better, the books she needs for class! so while she has ur lock, see if u can steal anything of hers, or when ur at her locker
just beat her at her own game and she will submit
she teases u...u tease her harder back  |
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cranberry sauce
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| next time slap her... and say: "Yo, what dat be like?" |
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VAtrackstar
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| cranberry sauce wrote: | | next time slap her... and say: "Yo, what dat be like?" |
no. please dont do that. |
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jockingly
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If she teases you, tease back!
Thats a hell lot of fun
Tell her she gets no sex tonight, or something cocky funny ^^
Jockingly |
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