just a quick Q man, this had been bugging me for a bit now,the time between today(Sunday) and possibly wed, seems ages. i havent spoken to her since or sorted out the logistics of things. what can i do form here to sort out the logistics and also to build attraction till the time i meet her?
your the man dude
Salut my friend!
She told you that she went to a party, did you ask her how it went? that could be a convo topic.
Build attraction= make her want you.
text her, just to check on her.
Im going to tell you something about logistics:
I was trying to go out with a model, she liked me being spontaneous, for example I just used to call her at random hours to tell her, "hey, im going to pick her up be ready". She used to love me for that.
in the other hand, I was dating this girl, she did not like when I did that to her, she always told me to tell her at least 3 days before I take her out.
My point is that you should calibrate about logistics, since you really want this girl, just talk to her tonight, and tomorrow just confirm the date, with a statement. Dont make the mistake that I used to make always " are we still good for Wednesday?" That sounda DAMN needy. Do what you did "Im going to pick you up Wednesday, be ready"
Go into routines in the forum my friend, and you would see some stuff that you could text her, to make her laugh.
Logistics, This is what I would do:
Me:Hey, be ready I would pick you up on wednesday!
HB:ok, where are we going?
Me: do you like surprises?
Me: this is a surprise, a little hint dont wear a skirt. lol
Girls have a big imagination.
hey dude, so i finally gathered my balls up off the floor and texted her. the thing is i wanted to build some comfort instead of flatout asking her to come and meet me at a venue. so the text battle went like this:
Me - *her name* howzit! did *party* wreck u?
Her - hey haha noo! im strong how r u?
ME - Like hulk strong or two wines and ill take the whole party on strong?
i been ok xcept its freezin n there's a big hole in my front door window after the wknd. long story. ill tell you if your lucky enough
hows ya lil monsta? he behavin betta than mummy i bet?
Her - Like two wines and im taking on the whole place strong hahah. ooh no! He's goods snoring away wat about ur boy? hahaha no! he's worse than me lol
its 12.41. im gunna leve it there and text her tomorrow.
what will be a good comeback to this?
also please critique my banter with her. do you feel this is leading upto anywhere?
not gunna lie, i was nervous. this girls like a 9 at worst and im like a 4 at best. im Guido buff but it stops when it comes to the face. i have a self limiting belief that the girls hotness and my age is a massive barrier. im ok with approaching and handling situation. as a matter of fact i k-closed a solid 9 last sat.now i know people here will jump the gun and say looks dont matter but i tend to think even on a seond date things can go wrong purely on looks.wheres a good start?
and Gioo i cant thank you enough dude. if this works ima find yo ass and buy you a drink. no homo