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LilWaynezProdigy
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 Posted: Sat Jul 26, 2008 12:44 am Post subject: Guys I need your help |
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Well lets see i met this girl not too long ago.. about week and a half...i had told my friend to tell this girl i thought she was cute and we went from there... meeting each other bla bla.. 1st date went pretty good id say... and then 3 days later i saw her after work for a quick bite... its been 6 days later and she has been busy everyday.. she clearly wants to chill when she talks on the phone but it just never happens.. something always comes up... I can tell when a girl is purposely not trying to chill with me and when she is... I dont know what im suppose to do.. today is Friday and we got the whole weekend ahead of us but i recall talking to the friend that sorta hoked us up and she said that she might be busy.. i feel something for this girl outta all the girls ive ever gamed.. or tried too.... that im not even trying to GAME her.. i actually feel for her... weird...on monday she suggested watching dark knight...and then we just never got around too.. she lives a busy lifestyle and i live a semi-busy lifestyle soo yea.. i need some advice.. what should i do!!!
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heres some more info on her
-- shes never been in a relationship.. shes never even kissed a guy.... do you guys think shes scared of commitment or no? when we chill she is totally not nervous or anything though |
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grayfox
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well lets look at this one of two ways
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its a shit test and she wants to see how often she can blow you off and see how often you come back to her
maybe she wants to see how much power over you she can have
lets hope its not this because if it is, then thats a pretty bitchy thing to do
and if it is this, play it off like you did something better, with a girl 3 times as hot as she is
maybe jealousy will make her want to hang out
or two
she is very busy and unfortunatly, you might not be on the top of her priority list
if its this, say to her, in a serious tone "look its kinda bs that we always make plans that dont go anywhere. so tell me, right now, when your free, and you have to promise me to keep your plans with me." then add some kind of cocky funny line here to ease the tension a little
if she does promise you a date and she blows you off again, you have to ask yourself, do i deserve a flake? someone who promised me something and then didnt follow through? (and a little bit of harsh truth: dont say, or even think shes different, because all girls are the same, not trying to sound like a jerk but its true) or ask yourself if you deserve someone better who cna follow through on plans, or if something comes up, like say a work friends party, she invites you with
this is just my advice, take it if you like it, if not, no hard feelings
hope this helps, and hope it works out |
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amin.XXX
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well ye he got that one true but you shouldn't
go after a women she is like trying to drag you in to her you must be a man and she has to folow you if she's busy than she is.... but you dont have to go after her she goes after you |
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Devious
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The problem might be that you're trying to get a date. Trying to go to dinner and a movie or something like that? Given her relationship history, or lack thereof, she might be more comfortable with something that isn't strictly a date (or doesn't look like it's one). This advice is good for dealing with any girl though.
What you need to do is call her and say that you're doing something, and ask if she wants to come with you. I.e. you and some friends are going to hang out at the mall. Or instead maybe, you're going shopping for a gift for someone and you want her to help you pick something out.
Whatever it is, you need to frame it like you're busy doing stuff anyway (which is probably true), but she can come along if she likes. If she blows you off, you've already made it clear that you went and had fun regardless. You avoid seeming desperate or needy this way. |
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madmax_666
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| In the art of suduction, one chapter talks about giving a false sense of secrriety( tired, so spelling is wrong), so try telling her to meet you and your friends and when she gets there you say they left or say something to give yourself that false secriety, or think of something, and than as your banging her you choke her thus, making yourself "the angry dragon" |
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LilWaynezProdigy
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| grayfox wrote: | well lets look at this one of two ways
one
its a shit test and she wants to see how often she can blow you off and see how often you come back to her
maybe she wants to see how much power over you she can have
lets hope its not this because if it is, then thats a pretty bitchy thing to do
and if it is this, play it off like you did something better, with a girl 3 times as hot as she is
maybe jealousy will make her want to hang out
or two
she is very busy and unfortunatly, you might not be on the top of her priority list
if its this, say to her, in a serious tone "look its kinda bs that we always make plans that dont go anywhere. so tell me, right now, when your free, and you have to promise me to keep your plans with me." then add some kind of cocky funny line here to ease the tension a little
if she does promise you a date and she blows you off again, you have to ask yourself, do i deserve a flake? someone who promised me something and then didnt follow through? (and a little bit of harsh truth: dont say, or even think shes different, because all girls are the same, not trying to sound like a jerk but its true) or ask yourself if you deserve someone better who cna follow through on plans, or if something comes up, like say a work friends party, she invites you with
this is just my advice, take it if you like it, if not, no hard feelings
hope this helps, and hope it works out |
Thanks alot all of you, this guy brought up alot of good points i didnt think about it!! |
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Khaos
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| Posted: Tue Jul 29, 2008 7:15 am Post subject: hey |
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Yeah dude make her fit you... i used to do the same things it sucks cause you really wanna see the girl but play it cool
If she wants to hang out show her you have a life too by saying hey i gotta do this first then we can meet up its cool
Dont show that shes already won you over though and dont seem too available you'll be alright |
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Korruptx
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"Well lets see i met this girl not too long ago.. about week and a half...i had told my friend to tell this girl i thought she was cute and we went from there... meeting each other bla bla.. 1st date went pretty good id say..."
You told your friend to tell the girl you thought she was cute.... oh my god dude thats pretty pathetic to be honest.. totally afc thats the sort of stuff I did in primary school. Sorry mate but dating and getting a friend to show your interest for you? This isnt pick-up.. |
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Sexcellent
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| i think you have attraction, but you need to build more comfort. this is tuff when you are not in person, but maybe you should try over the phone. |
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