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Lucifer
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 Posted: Tue Oct 02, 2007 1:08 am Post subject: Guys i need help!! PLEASE |
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| Ok so im new to everything pua. But i decided to use little tips i learned (having confidence, eye contanct, negging, ioi's and some kino escalation) u now just to see were im at. Needless to say it worked and i was able to keep two girls engaged and got one into my arms and u noe flirted or w/e. Ok so next day i went over to her house and we chilled and i got her naked , and i went to make a move and was turned down. now im not gonna lie cause i need real advice... i probably came off as an inexperienced(which i am) douuuche(which im not). Put simply i fucked up, yea full on american pie what a fag, fucked up!So now its been two days since the akward moment and i need advice on what to say or do to get this girl bak in the sak. Im 17 a total newb and insult me if u want but i just really need sum GOOD tips.THanks |
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Trivial
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| Posted: Tue Oct 02, 2007 1:39 am Post subject: |
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Its called use the search button... think about how many repeat questions of this will happen...
Ill lead you to the right way... search LMR and freeze outs |
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Envy
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| Posted: Tue Oct 02, 2007 5:36 am Post subject: |
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My advice is to own the situation. Everything you do you need to make people believe you are doing it for a reason whether you know what you are doing. If you believe so will they. If you are confident in your actions it will more than likely make her feel inadequate in the situation.
1. Don't apologize to her
2. Don't mention it to her, don't bring it up
A. If she brings it up turn it into a neg about how she messed up your flow
3.Get in touch with her again soon. Don't wait to long or it will seem like you are embarrassed. Then just act as your smooth self.
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Purity
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| Posted: Tue Oct 02, 2007 8:22 am Post subject: |
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| Hmm... when you say you went to make a move i wonder how you went about it. What "move" did you make? |
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Lucifer
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| Posted: Tue Oct 02, 2007 2:48 pm Post subject: thanks |
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| THanks alot envy. So far i did talk to her and i did act like nothing happened didnt bring it up etc. But how can i DHV after such a bad display of DLV. Oh and i hav a neg planned if she brings it up. THanks for the tips man. |
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Envy
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Just do normal DHVs nothing special. Don't try and over compensate to make up for you DLV though that is DLV in itself. Once you get the train back on the tracks just take it at a steady pace a tad out of your comfort zone. That way you are always growing but not to uncomfortable where you fumble around all the time.
-Envy
Yeah I am also interested in "the move" you made |
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