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Zip
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 Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 7:39 am Post subject: GUYS! HELP! |
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Okay, I've spent all my time on here helping you guys... time to cash in on what's due!
This guy sent me a myspace message:
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[redacted]... in the making
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Id love to explore you. may I take a gander at your photos? Im curious. Love [name removed]
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Okay, I replied:
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RE: [redacted] ... in the making
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Dear [name removed],
That reminds me of the old saying: curiosity killed the [removed occupation].
You wrote me a message asking my permission to view photos that you already have access to? Is this some sort of new-age internet etiquette? Who said chivalry is dead!
Go right ahead, sir. Make sure you check out my "peacocking" picture. You'd probably get a kick out of it.
With fondest regards,
Zip
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He's now replied:
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Oh my god ...
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I so LOVE you! You're fun! We should totally date each other. Or at least share a joint.
[name removed].
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Guys. Give me some words of wisdom here. What do I do? Where should I go? I have no intention of meeting this guy any soon, and would like to keep the lines of communication open (I'm interested in his professional life because it corresponds with mine.)
P.S. Sorry for all of the redactions and removals... but I have my reasons  |
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Thugnificient
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Actually the content of email is pretty good...Successful opener however weird....but it triggered your response...then he directly stated what he wanted from you (nice example of direct game)
Zip you can't have your cake an eat it too. He won't give up on meeting you/trying to hook up with you. If you flat out tell him no he'll probably cry and never speak to you again
Or You can one tell him you have someone else your interested in but he's still cool to chat with...maybe he'll back off then there would be a possibility of keeping the lines of communication open.(I've done this to girsl i didn't want to date or wasn't that interested in)
hope that helps |
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Zip
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Thanks. I don't mean that I wouldn't want to meet up with him ever. I'm actually wanting that to happen. However, I want to build up a good rapport with him before meeting.
Is that more clear as to what I'm asking? How do I keep him interested in talking with me? |
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Thugnificient
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Ok I understand now.
Well as long as you stay looking pretty and don't totally blow him off he'll be interested.
However any sort of playfully teasing you do in your emails being that you're a woman and all will be taken as and act of flirting.
the fact the you continue to talk to him will be taken as an act of flirting
This guy already likes use it to your advantage you can draw the line when you meet in person
Since you did say you wanted to meet eventually
for true rapport building I recommend public places where it can't be assumed to be a "date" setting like the Mall everyone goes to the Mall
so decline the joint smoking session tell him you have to get to know him first meet him on your terms. He'll have no choice but to agree with you
I dont know if I'm helping you or not? It's a bit different giving a female advice about online game its an entirely different ball game |
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L.A. Tripp
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| This guy won't lose interest in you anytime soon. On down the road, no matter how distant you make him at this point, he'll be around. Sure, he's likely to try to seduce you at some point. That's just in his nature. Unless he KNOWS you're with someone, and committed. Just talk to him at this point. No big deal. |
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Stealth7
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Hun,
The guy doesn't sound right-I read it and I was kinda creeped out myself. It doesn't look like he's gaming you, it looks like he's a psycho path. Just re-read the shit he sent you. It's kinda creepy ain't?
First of all asking to see you pictures. He already has access to it so why would he ask you.
I have a question for you-how many times does he message you and how directly is he getting? Is he trying to hurry up and meet you? Is he trying to get your number right away? What is he doing that's out of the ordinary.
Listen the last thing I wanna hear on the news is some crazy shit happening to you. To me he sounds desperate and needy. Psycho is more the term to use.
Yes, he maybe in the same profession or could be making it up. Use your intuition. If you noticed something fucked up about it then go with your gut instinct. Don't be stupid like those other girls and get whatever happened to them.
I'm not bashing him or anything I'm just telling you this guy is after something and it just doesn't sit well. If you re-read his and get a feeling from it-don't ignore it! Your feminine intuition is almost always correct.
It's like my first time meeting you saying, "Oh, I love you blah blah blah" That would be creepy wouldn't it?
HOpe you read this and take the advice because I know what I'm talking about. Peace out and chat with me later. |
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