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I tried to get a date out of her but made the mistake of asking when she was free to meet for one. She said maybe this weekend. I knew I blew it asking her that.
Nothing blown here. This is a fine way to do it... In the future you can rephrase it to something like "Ok I'm free Tuesday, Thursday and Saturday, which works for you?"
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I was thinking of saying something came up and I won't be available/here this weekend and try and move it to tonight or tomorrow. As a last ditch effort I was thinking of making a push to see her on NYE since she claims she will be home (despite that I prepaid for a NYE party)
You're into her WAY more than she's into you, man... Back down a bit. She's not special. 24 hrs of texting doesn't make a soul mate.
Seriously? You do not want your first date with a random Tinder girl to be on new years eve, man... No pressure there at all, right? Not to mention you'd be changing your plans for the girl... which is a mistake.
What do you do? You message your other 100 matches on Tinder and get a date with one of them in place of this girl. She knows how to contact you and knows you want to go out with her. Pushing her on it and changing the date is just a bad idea. Makes you look eager and needy.
Cut your texts to her down a bit too... You're a good looking text buddy right now - who'll drop anything for a date with her... that's it. Not much of a challenge for her there, is it?