Hoch daddy wrote:
From another post I read, "This is a fun way I've been comped by female bartenders. I go to the bar with a friend and chat and laugh and have a good time. If I'm alone, I chat up the guys sitting next to me. I only order a drink when she asks. I play it straight twice. Whereafter my second beer is finished she then asks if I want another. I look at her bewildered and say (playfully) "yes, but why do you keep buying me drinks? I came here to socialize, not for you to sauce me up. . . . Jeez Louise, what are you intentions?"
It works well if the bar isn't packed and you DHV with the group around you. Even if there is a group of guys there.
I like that a lot. I'm gonna try that next time I go to a pub or something less crowded.
North, I personally don't try to pick up hired guns, but that's mostly because I don't consider myself enough of a PUA to try. What I have been doing is building up my confidence with approaching by talking to them, because they HAVE to talk to me. I like using my rainbow tuque as an opinion opener because its about 70/30 against the tuque an in favour of my shaved head, but either way I end up getting a compliment out of it and if they say they like the tuque, then I can reply with "Thanks...if I wasn't gay, then you'd totally be mine"