So i met this hot nerd girl in LA, a few days back & #-closed her...
We texted back n forth a few times, me doing as little push n pull on her, complimenting her on her soft words n stuff.. etc.

example:-
ME: i wish this meeting could be just before my bedtime... (yawn). hows your day?
SHE: finishing up hw ... have class till 530pm. Boring.
ME: you should so much come in here, sit by my side n talk to me..
i am so sleepy in this office meeting.
SHE: you should have some coffee
ME : but i wanna sleep its not that you got super-sexy voice but your soft sensual words wud help me slide into a sleep-trance.
(no reply)

(Since, for no obvious reason, she hinted me the time she would get free --> 530pm, i didnt want to skip reading the sign, and sent her this txt around 5pm)
ME: hey, i like the weather today, you should join me for Yogurtland.

(after 4.5 hours around 930pm)
SHE: oh hey, i didnt check my phone, i dont know what Yogurtland is, lol. But i'll talk to you later.

(i remember i brought up yogurtland when i met her first & she actually didnt know yogurtland -- yogurtland is frozen yogurt icecream place in LA, if some of us dont know about it.)
I decided to freeze her out for a day or two, coz i felt that text she sent a bit rude/indifferent, so i didnt text her back anything.

I wanna know if the game is still onnn.. incase its not... i wanna turn it on again...
Suggestions/Comments on some better way to handle it from here expected...

-- Jack

ME: you should so much come in here, sit by my side n talk to me..
i am so sleepy in this office meeting.
SHE: you should have some coffee

have a think about this point, if she was really keen her response would have indicated that yes she wanted to be by you.

then imo you went a little afc

but, man, you havent lost the battle, make her laugh and stop trying to be cute

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'Nothing is impossible to a willing mind'

nothing really super wrong here, might as well keep her on the team,

don't get needy and text her when she doesn't respond, when that happens, bite your damn tounge and wait 24 hours, unless you have made plans with her and she agreed, then you should try to call her before those plans are to go down, that way you made an effort, but for just random fluff talk, don't get needy, have a reason for contact if you must make it besides ''I want your attention''

also... wtf she doesn't know bout dat yogurt land?, is she crazy?

you best text her, HEY WTF YOU DON'T KNOW BOUT DAT YOGURT LAND??, WE PROBABLY SHOULD NEVER SPEAK TO EACH OTHER AGAIN UNTIL YOU MAKE UP FOR THIS TERRIBLE CRIME

if she does something to further soil the name of yogurt land, flip the script and wait 4 hours to give her a reply.. ''I thought you were cool ....''

Sounds like she's trying to disconnect from you. First minor flag that bleeped on my radar, I would've either stopped texting OR the next text I send has to be something more connectional.

ME : but i wanna sleep its not that you got super-sexy voice but your soft sensual words wud help me slide into a sleep-trance.
(no reply)
This is kinda AFC-ish, as it sounds like ur whining.

ME: hey, i like the weather today, you should join me for Yogurtland.
K....not a lot of enthusiasm or sexualness or anything at all in this text. I don't text ANYONE, including my friends (let alone a HB), unless what I have to say is something worth their while or will make them smile. U said she's a nerd, right? If it was me, I'd suggest to take her to a Borders or Books-a-Million where there's a coffee shop for some stimulating chit-chat, or if u can't think of anything to say, go grab a Time magazine and pick a topic to talk about.

(after 4.5 hours around 930pm)
SHE: oh hey, i didnt check my phone, i dont know what Yogurtland is, lol. But i'll talk to you later.
HAHAHAHA. This text made me chuckle a little. She uses "I" a lot with you. Her last sentence seems like she's trying to distance herself from you. If her interest level in you was 50% or above, it would've been more like "We'll talk later" instead of "I'll talk to you later".

At this point, it seems like her interest level in u is a little below 50%, but without knowing her body language, it's a little harder to gauge over the forums. Since this "relationship" u have with her is still in the early stages, I do think u still have a chance to salvage it. But u got a long way to go before anything else can take off. GL to u.

Well, when i #-closed her... i didnt sexually escalate and played all non-needy and focussed busy goal-oriented (in short, alpha) guy.... so i guess this attempt of mine, flashing some sexual interest could have been done in some better way...
(how could this have been done better would be really great to know)

Anyway, challenge is what makes seduction fun... so i am all upto it.. and i am sure to be able to turn the tables around here...
Atleast, m happy to strategize by gauging her investment levels with mine+yours knowledge combined.

Thanks guys... i ll keep you posted on updates.
Another question : Any leads on how to spark interest again if she tries to distance herself... i mean what sort of texts/call/pings would appeal the most? I feel this shall be a very common problem in aspiring PUAs !!
-- Jack