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Kosher
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 Posted: Wed Oct 03, 2007 5:50 am Post subject: Girl from Work |
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So there is this girl from work who I am kinda into. I have already decided that I honestly don't give a shit if something happens between us or if we are just friends. I hope that gives me some kind of advantage. I play cocky/funny with her sometimes and some times I just don't give a fuck. All I know is that she is probably pretty confused as to what I think about her.
Today I brought up a few ideas when I was talking to my friend about making money and one of them had to do with coffee. She was in the general area and she joined the conversation. I didn't really pay much attention to her but I negged her a bit and made her laugh a bit without really targeting anything at her or really acknowledging she was part of the conversation.
Later I was talking to them again and she brought up starbucks and said ho good their coffee is. I asked if she had ever had a real espresso and she said no and told me i should cook her dinner and take her out for one. I recognized this as a shit test so I told her she couldn't handle dinner and coffee with me. Then our boss came by and everyone got back to work.
Is there anywhere I should go with this. What do you reccommend? |
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PrinceOfWales
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| definetly, not too big, somethinh like I should take you to the place were they make proper expresso, not dinner, if she says that again do cocky funny on her by saying something like what do you want a date or something?, dont ignore her. |
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Surreal
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| My personal philosphy is don't shit where you eat and don't mix business with pleasure. Girls from work can do nothing but bring a storm of trouble. |
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LEPRECHAUN
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I agree with that statement about not mixing business with pleasure.
Girls are "scandalous" especially if you work with them. So be careful.
Cause if you do something that she don't like, then your work will get
to be so damn stressful, that you MIGHT do something dumb.
I would recommend asking her if her friends want to go out clubbin'
with you and your friends, and be sure to have a girl there that likes
you, or one whom will PRETEND to like you to see if this girl gets jealous.
This has worked, and will work.
I mean, if your intent is to bed this particular hottie.
My suggestion is this ... DO NOT PLAY IN THE SANDBOX WHERE YOU SHIT.
In other words ... do not play with this girl. She might just be bored and
be killing time with you cause you're a GOOD FRIEND AT WORK.
Also Know As : A CO-WORKER
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Rye Lee
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| Posted: Thu Oct 04, 2007 4:06 am Post subject: |
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| I think its a good habit to get into being professional in certain aspects at work. Not sleeping with co-workers is one of those, unless its an atmosphere where you never ever see each other or have interactions that will make the whole environment uncomfortable. Some companies have policies that they will fire both of you for things like that, so I say just stick to safe practices and it gets ingrained and you don't fuck yourself over down the line. Sure, she may have been the best fuck of the month, or even your life, but was she worth your career and that pension? |
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Nephilim
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| Posted: Thu Oct 04, 2007 4:18 am Post subject: |
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Don't get your honey where you get your money.
Don't dip your pen in the company ink.
Have fun and consider it practice....nothin more, nothin less. |
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Kosher
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| Posted: Thu Oct 04, 2007 6:01 am Post subject: |
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| OK first off I honestly wouldnt care if I lost my job over this. I can get another job within a few weeks and there is no way I want to make this job into a career. In fact, if this job does end up becoming my career I will probably kill myself. |
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