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Jigsaw
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 Posted: Wed Feb 13, 2008 11:01 pm Post subject: Girl Coming Here Tomorrow NEED ADVICE!!! |
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Heres the deal
I have been friends with this insanely attractive girl for quite some time now and back when we were just becoming friends I had a bit of a thing for her. Eventually I was put into the old "just friends" category and have been stranded there ever since. We both went away to uni and she comes and visits every now and again and she is coming here TOMORROW because all her flat mates have gone away and she doesn't want to spend valentines day alone in her flat and since she likes me and all my friends here she decided to come have a night out with us.
It eats me up inside that I never got with her (even in a one off kiss way) and if ever I had a chance to go for it then tomorrow seems like the perfect time (Valentines day, big night out and all surrounded by couples and such)
I need some good advice on how to break down that shitty "just friends" Wall and let her see me as someone who she could be attracted to. I have heard people say that Kino is the best way to break the just friends thing but any advice you guys can give me would be much appreciated! |
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DTM
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| Posted: Wed Feb 13, 2008 11:26 pm Post subject: |
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| hmmm, it could be difficult to do in one night. hopefully someone has some good advice... |
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Crasher
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| Posted: Wed Feb 13, 2008 11:55 pm Post subject: Re: Girl Coming Here Tomorrow NEED ADVICE!!! |
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| Jigsaw wrote: | Heres the deal
I have been friends with this insanely attractive girl for quite some time now and back when we were just becoming friends I had a bit of a thing for her. Eventually I was put into the old "just friends" category and have been stranded there ever since. We both went away to uni and she comes and visits every now and again and she is coming here TOMORROW because all her flat mates have gone away and she doesn't want to spend valentines day alone in her flat and since she likes me and all my friends here she decided to come have a night out with us.
It eats me up inside that I never got with her (even in a one off kiss way) and if ever I had a chance to go for it then tomorrow seems like the perfect time (Valentines day, big night out and all surrounded by couples
and such)
I need some good advice on how to break down that shitty "just friends" Wall and let her see me as someone who she could be attracted to. I have heard people say that Kino is the best way to break the just friends thing but any advice you guys can give me would be much appreciated! |
first let your friends know your crush I think its bordering on one itis ,you will need wingmen just tell them not to be immature about it and screw it up for you
dhv a few have your friends help you with this, then throw a playful neg at her
"ahhhh your alone on valentines day"
then after displaying a dhv here and there and throwing a neg in also important change your style a little bit get a hair cut wear a new shirt somthing that will make her second guess who you are, also stay away from talking about old friends and stuff anytime she brings up somthing about the past cut her off or somthing like that
make her a small bit uncomfortable dont be creepy just do somthing you wouldn't usually do like if your serious crack a few jokes if your usually funny talk about a serious issue
SHOW HER YOU THE AMOG this is where your friends cooperation comes in if she sees you as the leader of the group she would get closer to you
the most improtant part is the isolation but you have to do this without her suspecting anything and when you do kino her do it playfully
tell her I want to show you somthing:
my best kino tool is the classic spider knee technique you put your fingertips together place your fingertips on her knee and apply pressure while you seperate your fingersin opposite directions if done right it will make her smile or giggle its supposed to be 1/10 of an orgasm
this was popular four years back in my high school it got me alot of hbs  |
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KingMidas
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You gotta do more than kino bro. Open as many sets as you can when you guys are out. Do it right in front of her, mixed sets and girl only sets. Don't completely ignore her, you can introduce her to the sets you open and include her, but remember this very important thing: at no point should you act as if she is the most important person in the room unless you are alone with her to build comfort. This means that when you do group introductions, you introduce her last or near last. When you tell a story, focus your attention on two people, preferably on opposite sides of a group, but be sure to give everybody else (including her) eye contact from time to time.
These things I mentioned will create high social value in the room for you, and there's no better way to get her to pursue you than that. |
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Jigsaw
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| Posted: Thu Feb 14, 2008 12:17 am Post subject: a little more... |
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Thanks for the advice guys. Perhaps I should have explained the situation a little better.
The girl in question is a girl that I know quite well and talk to quite frequently online so she pretty much knows me (kind of) so acting completely different could alienate her (I presume).
Also The reasoning behind us going out in the first place is basically that all my friends who are single are going to go out and get absolutely hammered (were university students...it's just our logic)
Thing is that I am the only guy within our friend group, bar one, that is single. Theres just something about having a serious relationship at university that doesn't appeal to me. Meaning that I will be going on a night out with about 6 girls (including the one in question) and just one other guy. The other guy in the group won't be a problem what so ever but i'm wondering will the other 5 girls being present give me an advantage. Bearing in mind that the girl i'm talking about doesn't know them all too well? |
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Crasher
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| Posted: Thu Feb 14, 2008 12:56 am Post subject: Re: a little more... |
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| Jigsaw wrote: | Thanks for the advice guys. Perhaps I should have explained the situation a little better.
The girl in question is a girl that I know quite well and talk to quite frequently online so she pretty much knows me (kind of) so acting completely different could alienate her (I presume).
Also The reasoning behind us going out in the first place is basically that all my friends who are single are going to go out and get absolutely hammered (were university students...it's just our logic)
Thing is that I am the only guy within our friend group, bar one, that is single. Theres just something about having a serious relationship at university that doesn't appeal to me. Meaning that I will be going on a night out with about 6 girls (including the one in question) and just one other guy. The other guy in the group won't be a problem what so ever but i'm wondering will the other 5 girls being present give me an advantage. Bearing in mind that the girl i'm talking about doesn't know them all too well? |
make her friends drool for you and ignore her at first |
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