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maniac
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 Posted: Mon Dec 10, 2007 4:23 am Post subject: Getting past the phone call?? |
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OK now just joined the site not long ago and its a great read. My problem is definatly not with the approach in fact, i have no problems approaching girls, specially if i have had a few drinks.
The issue i have is after getting the phone number its as if the girl i approached has somehow lost intrest.
So far i havent been to secure anything solid after getting that phone number, i'm definatly not playing the numbers game, as its more about the quality that i'm after.
Just wondering if you guys have any tips for girls you would have met on how to take that next step from a phone call into a potential date and further? |
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skittlepimp
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are you talking to your targets for a while after #closing? if so then forget i said that. also are you congruent with them, meaning are you the same on the phone as you were when you met them?
those were just some things that came to mind, also try not to call to often remember your a busy man with lots of options, you dont wanna appear to be needy. personally if i get a chicks number and they dont answer like after 2 or 3 times tops then i drop em.
also dont use alcohol as a crutch, it may seem like liquid courage but it can distort perception and screw up your game.
these are just my opinions take em or leave em |
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Jubjub
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| I've had the same problem. What I've realized is that sometimes girls will give you their number just to get you off their back. For them it's easier to just brush you off over the phone than it is to do it in person. Getting a number doesn't always mean she's interested. Was she giving IOI's? How was the conv. going? Gimmie some more details. |
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