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PostPosted: Tue Jan 20, 2015 1:18 am 
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well well well, look what the cat dragged in... nice to see you on here buddy -


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PostPosted: Thu Jan 22, 2015 12:46 pm 
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PostPosted: Fri Jan 23, 2015 1:07 am 
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he logged in yesterday (the 21st) on here which is after that post was made.

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PostPosted: Fri Jan 23, 2015 2:21 am 
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he logged in yesterday (the 21st) on here which is after that post was made.

I'm fine. :D


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PostPosted: Fri Jan 23, 2015 2:25 am 
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i feel like these days opinion openers arent the best way to go in colleges. what you need to remember is that most people in college want to make friends, just no one wants to make the first move.

For example i would go up to the groups in the cafeteria and say "hey guys, how ya doin, i was just over there sitting alone enjoying my mcdonalds crappy meal when i saw that everyone els was sitting with their friends, and i figured i may aswell make some friends while im here :)"

and then id go into a routine about how its weird that every one has approach anxiety and even though most people want to be friends and everyone has so much in common, no one has the guts to say anything.

it works because its relevant to the situation you are in, getting into a routine that isnt relevant at all to your situation might confuse them and think youre weird when in reality youre just trying to be a friendly guy

If only I read this earlier. I didn't realize that my indirect openers were getting bad results. And I needed to go semi-direct by using a line similar to the one you've mentioned. Next time I should have said the simple opener:

"Hey, how are you guys doing?" :)

"I'm new to the college. And am trying to make friends. Mind if I join?" :)


Btw: I would avoid using a really long opener because it comes off as try hard. Think: Nice, short, sweet and no need to overcompensate with extra words.


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PostPosted: Fri Jan 23, 2015 2:25 am 
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well well well, look what the cat dragged in... nice to see you on here buddy -
likewise. nice push/pull line.


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PostPosted: Fri Jan 23, 2015 2:26 am 
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He's gone AWOL Da, I think I scared him off. I feel like a douche right now.
I don't think so, he's still makng videos:

See him doing pretty well directly a couple of days ago: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AtadeqnG_iA
I"ll try to post daily here from now on.


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PostPosted: Fri Jan 23, 2015 2:39 am 
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We're all rooting for you.
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PostPosted: Fri Jan 23, 2015 2:46 am 
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TO MOD AND READERS :D
For 2015 I want to start an entirely different FR journal and dump this one. NEW YEAR. NEW JOURNAL. This old one reminds me of the past back when I was a newbie and brings back some negative memories. IF you want you can delete this one because I will no longer be posting updates here.


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