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You're forgetting the fact that it's also a matter of sheer #s. Most girls are not 10s. If they were, they'd only be 5s. Get it? The fact that girls are not all 10s means you're going to get mostly below 7 THRU 10.
But yea, you make no mention of the things that makes you attractive as a male; Do you have a good job? Do you work out? What's your social level? If any of these things are low, you know it on some level and if you're still intimidated by attractive women, they will be out of your reach.
I have a great job, I do heavy lifting so I have an above average body. I'm not skinny but not fat either, I'm just working to reduce my spare tire.
I've been told I'm good looking but it seems like every girls has there own taste.
Social Level I have no idea, LOL. I just came out of 15 year marriage 4 months ago, so I'm slowly learning to be out on my own. All my friends revolved around my marriage so I'm trying to get out there and build my own circle. This is really hard because my old circle is always trying to draw me back in. But I can't hang with them cuz even though the X and me are cool its just weird and I don't wanna be there. I'd rather be meeting women. Currently my logistics really suck since my sister and nephew are living with me. She's moving out in 2 months. Plus I have no car but will have one in about 3 weeks. Right now when I need a car I drive my Sisters car which is a soccer mom car. Ugh.
But I know these things should not matter. I just need to overcome them, what I've been told, girls don't care about cars, you can always find a high value hotie with her own place to solve logistics, Solutions.... etc etc.