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I'm decent with pickup at this point, BUT, how do I seduce a lesbian? I swear, this is not trolling. This is an honest to god question.

I want to figure out how to get a lesbian because honestly, how much of a bad ass would you feel like after that? And I'm always up for a challenge. At this point, my style of game is like Mystery Method with a lot of improvisation and I'm experimenting with making a cold approach a warm one. (Befriending someone and then seducing them around the second or third time I see them)

The thing is, I use material to fall back on. I tried to get a lesbian earlier who was with her girlfriend, and she turned out to be 13! (She looked like she was a lot older, I swear to god. I found a way to keep this from happening again, no worries. I'm not a creep.) But I had extreme approach anxiety so I think that while I don't use material as a crutch or training wheels, I like knowing the material because it helps me figure out what my smaller goals are.


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Hehe:) Well, I'm a "lesbian" so to speak, lately my sexuality has been fluctuating a little, but I would still definitely call my self a lesbian. Last saturday a guy got a make out session with me and heavy petting by flashing his finger to me and being very rude :) I just loved it, I don't know if that will help you, but I just HAD to qualify myself to him, like wtf, a guy opens me with flashing a finger?? So I flashed him back and the games began :D I guess it comes down to being extra non-needy and yes, lots of kino, and be careful not to be sleazy because lesbians hate it when men think lesbians are hot for men entertainment stuff.

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Hehe:) Well, I'm a "lesbian" so to speak, lately my sexuality has been fluctuating a little, but I would still definitely call my self a lesbian. Last saturday a guy got a make out session with me and heavy petting by flashing his finger to me and being very rude :) I just loved it, I don't know if that will help you, but I just HAD to qualify myself to him, like wtf, a guy opens me with flashing a finger?? So I flashed him back and the games began :D I guess it comes down to being extra non-needy and yes, lots of kino, and be careful not to be sleazy because lesbians hate it when men think lesbians are hot for men entertainment stuff.
Middle finger or pointing his index at you?


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Hehe:) Well, I'm a "lesbian" so to speak, lately my sexuality has been fluctuating a little, but I would still definitely call my self a lesbian. Last saturday a guy got a make out session with me and heavy petting by flashing his finger to me and being very rude Smile I just loved it, I don't know if that will help you, but I just HAD to qualify myself to him, like wtf, a guy opens me with flashing a finger?? So I flashed him back and the games began Very Happy I guess it comes down to being extra non-needy and yes, lots of kino, and be careful not to be sleazy because lesbians hate it when men think lesbians are hot for men entertainment stuff.
Way tight! I'm gonna have to try it!


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How'd it go, though? Was it just getting you to qualify with a lot of kino backing that up, or what?


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Middle finger and a very serious face. He's a very macho, buff type of guy, think Italian mafia guy. He gave me the finger, I gave him the finger back, whenever we were together with a group of mutual friends he would cut me off in the middle of the sentence and tell me to shut up because I'm talking bullshit and he was generally very rude. I did know he was joking, there was a slight smirk, but his face expression was generally very serious. My friends actually started attacking him verbally after we were just insulting each other a while and I started defending him. Then he hugged me and started with the kino, but the first half of the interaction was almost purely verbal and rude. Then he complimented me a little, but only then and after the makeout session. He was very assertive, at one point he followed me to the bathroom and got into the booth with me and it was on. Very good kisser too, I was rarely kissed that well by a boy. Yes, and one thing that impressed me that he won a game of gay chicken with another mutual friend, going full tongue makeout with a guy in public. I knew he had balls of steel after that move :)

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That is way tight! I'm gonna try something similar with the next lesbian I wanna seduce, haha. Thanks!


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In my youth I had a serious LTR with a lesbian. She had quite a few of her lesbian buddies hanging around all the time so I did get to a number of them on a pretty personal level. She was a great gal and we hit it off real well and there were some good times but trust me, it was not a healthy relationship and it did not end well.

Lesbians are lesbians for a reason.

The lesbians that I knew DO enjoy the sensation of a penis in their vagina and are often fascinated with men and male/female relationships but they are often damaged goods and are very leary and suspicious of men in general and many are only comfortable with any level of intimacy around women.

What you see in porns are not real lesbians. Most real lesbians are not hardbodied, hot, blond babes. Most are very plain at best if not downright unattractive. Many are lesbians by default because no quality men will have them and the only guys that approach them are gross and are only trying to get in their pants for a quickie so they are very leary of guys just trying to fuck them so they actually have a pretty high bitch shield for being as unattractive as they are.

Many are damaged goods from being used and abused by men in their lives and have had terrible male role models so many are quite suspicious and untrusting of men in general.

Every guy that hits on them tries to get them to bring their girlfriend along with them for a 3way so they have all heard that line a million times before.

As far as gaming them, I don't know if you really need to do anything different than you would for any other chick.

The real thing you need to do is ask yourself why you want to bed someone that is not primarily attracted to males and has a higher comfort level with males and probably won't be that great in the sack anyway.

You have a better chance of getting a 3way with two normal chicks than getting 2 lesbians in the sack with you. with normal chicks getting in bed with another woman is something new and exciting. with lesbians it is just going to turn into a big territory battle.


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The real thing you need to do is ask yourself why you want to bed someone that is not primarily attracted to males and has a higher comfort level with males and probably won't be that great in the sack anyway.
I want to bed a lesbian because lately, I've been setting up quite a bit of goals for myself and the harder they are the better. I ran out of goals that seemed pretty difficult and I was like "Y'know, I bet seducing a lesbian would be pretty hard for me..." so I figured I'd try it. Haha, I'm not gonna be a prick and say I care about them more than I do to take advantage or anything, but I'd like to push myself as much as possible. I'll just make it clear before I bed them that I'm only out looking for a bit of fun.

And I know not a lot of lesbians are the best looking chicks out there, but I'm sure I can find some pretty sexy ones if I look in the right places.


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The real thing you need to do is ask yourself why you want to bed someone that is not primarily attracted to males and has a higher comfort level with males and probably won't be that great in the sack anyway.

You have a better chance of getting a 3way with two normal chicks than getting 2 lesbians in the sack with you. with normal chicks getting in bed with another woman is something new and exciting. with lesbians it is just going to turn into a big territory battle.
That's true, I know I'm not that good with handling a penis, that's for sure.

Also true about territory battle.

As far as damaged goods go, yeah it's true to some extent for a large subgroup of lesbians. There are even severely damaged women out there who go as far as hating men or having men phobia, I had a roommate like that. There are, however, some girls (like myself) who view being sexual with men just as experimentation in the same way a straight chick might fool around with another woman. I don't know anymore, but maybe it has to do with good self-image and maturity. You hit a nail about lesbians being generally unattractive, that's why I like straight girls. These unattractive lesbians know they're unattractive. I used to be very butch (during my teens), people would mistake me for a boy. So everywhere I went I felt like an outcast, guys wouldn't even look at me like a person, just as some "thing" that's not even a woman and this has a great impact on self esteem etc. The thing I didn't realize then in my rebellious years it this: it's just the way it is. In some utopian world things might be different, but in the world we live in there are gender roles and you just have to accept it. I guess I get hit on much more now (as much as a straight chick would) is because I'm comfortable in my skin, with my fitting clothes that show my curves, my longer hair, my make-up and I'm always laughing, I'm a nice girl who is comfortable with who she is. Men can sense that. They can sense I don't resent them for wanting hot chicks, I don't hate them, I'm not afraid of them and they generally make a very good connection with me. And I love men, I really do, so many of my best friends are men, I just love the simplicity of the interaction, not having to read their mind.
So my point is, the lesbian you're going to seduce has to have these things resolved. Also, if you try to pick up a lesbian in a gay club, there's gonna be so much ASD, god forbid her lez friends see she's getting with a guy. So maybe an under the radar approach might be better, just being "friends", this will also build comfort she needs to have sex with you, she'll need plenty.

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I almost forgot, making clear you're just here for a little bit of fun is great, she'll be very relieved to hear that since she knows she can't commit to anything with you. If I may make another suggestion, tease instead of negging, follow up with some compliments both about her looks and her personality. You don't have to worry about not complimenting her looks, this probably hasn't been done as much as with straight chicks, except if she's like really really hot.

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Hehe:) Well, I'm a "lesbian" so to speak, lately my sexuality has been fluctuating a little, but I would still definitely call my self a lesbian. Last saturday a guy got a make out session with me and heavy petting by flashing his finger to me and being very rude :) I just loved it, I don't know if that will help you, but I just HAD to qualify myself to him, like wtf, a guy opens me with flashing a finger?? So I flashed him back and the games began :D I guess it comes down to being extra non-needy and yes, lots of kino, and be careful not to be sleazy because lesbians hate it when men think lesbians are hot for men entertainment stuff.
Nice one...i like your response...according to me what ever you have done is just not enough...you should go more in deep..and you should give more time....then you get more and more pleasure...

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Yes, and one thing that impressed me that he won a game of gay chicken with another mutual friend, going full tongue makeout with a guy in public. I knew he had balls of steel after that move :)
So in order to make out with a lesbian you must first make out with a dude...

Fight gay with gay... like fighting fire with fire!

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