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PostPosted: Wed Sep 24, 2014 4:52 pm 
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Hey college bros!

Wanted to ask a quick question: tomorrow I'm supposed to go this history class, which is optional in my degree, so I literally don't know anyone in that class. What I DO know is that it's full of freshman girls (YES!) and what I would like to know is... what could I do in order to meet girls in there? I mean, I'm not into the idea of sitting on corner alone withering away listening to a history class, so I might as well approach a cutie or two. What would be the best way to do this in a class where I'm a total stranger?

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You can try introducing yourself.


Haha sorry man, I guess I must have forgotten to mention that part! Actually, that was my plan, but I was specifically looking for advice on how to introduce myself to girls who are only 17-18 (I'm 22 btw).

You're overcomplicating it. An introduction has no age limits. You want to know someone, you walk up to them and say, "Hello, I'm ______." More than likely they will respond by giving their name.


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You're overcomplicating it. An introduction has no age limits. You want to know someone, you walk up to them and say, "Hello, I'm ______." More than likely they will respond by giving their name.[/quote]

Hum, interesting! Of course I don't expect them to be creeped by my age. It's just portuguese girls are so.fucking.shy. I gotta focus on presenting myself as a friendly guy I guess... Thanks!

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PostPosted: Thu Oct 02, 2014 7:53 pm 
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After writing this I see that it has become quite a long post. It is also my first post on these forums, apart from the one in the introductions section. I hope I am writing this in the correct place and not to bore you too much.

The introduction started around 10:30 in the morning, last Thursday. It was my first day at this university in Madrid. It was a rather boring thing. We got a little tour around the campus and some free paella during lunch. Then we had about an hour to relax until we were to go in again for some kind of presentation. I assumed it would be this standard thing all institutions did, praising themselves and the city or area in which they are located, you know the drill. Anyway, it was full of Italians, Germans, some French and the rest was from other places. The Spanish wouldn't be there until the Monday after, when classes started. I'm not so big on Italian or German girls, and the French ones present weren't worth it. I am in Madrid because I want to meet some nice Spanish women. Preferably slightly older, but students is also fun. It would be nice to get to know their dating culture, do stuff the Spanish way, meet their family and have their mothers cook me delicious local meals. Please don't get me wrong, in no way I intend to use/abuse women or their family, merely enjoy their company and their beloved skills. Well, that had to wait. I did see quite some hot girls, but most of them Italian. I would give them a chance later this year. In the end, after the paella during the free time, I sat with the few fellow Dutchmen who were there. All female and not very attractive. However, we did have some quality conversation and fun. After about 20 minutes of simple but fun conversation my canthus spotted a cute small blonde. She was close to an 8 and positively one of the hottest present on the campus that day.
I acted as if I didn't see her, but gently started to improve my posture, and talked more alpha to the group. I had never done this before, but for some reason it felt rather natural. The four Dutch girls around me were now listening to my every word. One of them wavered over the cute blondine. She was also Dutch. I found myself to be in the controlling position of the conversation. When I talked they listened, and without saying anything or much of a gesture, it felt like I were the one to coordinate when others could talk. It was an amazing feeling and I very much enjoyed it. The cute blondine wasn't yet allowed to talk. At some point she tried to jump in by saying something about a guy who was sitting on a bench a few meters away. What she said wasn't an insult or something bad, but when I negged her by saying she was mean to have said that, it was the perfect amount of neg. The other girls laughed a bit at her, but not enough to make her feel unwanted or uncomfortable. It was a beautiful day by the way. We sat on long wooden benches in the middle of a stretch of grass with pines popping out here and there. She was wearing one of those tight black pants going down halfway her ankles, beige medium height heels and a very attractive top of some sort of fluffy fabric somewhere between spring green and cyan. She was short, with long shiny hair and a gorgeous figure. It was hard not to get lost in here deep bright blue eyes which in a strange way were complimented by the colour of her top.
Anyway, after a bit more talking and me ignoring her I let her in on the conversation. The other girls could see that she was much better looking than they were, but because we had good conversation before, they didn't seem to mind me turning my attention to the cute blondine, who was now sitting next to me. She happened to be from the same province in Holland as myself and we had a good laugh about random stuff. I told her that I wanted to find a Spanish girlfriend to improve my Spanish and get to meet her family as I mentioned above, which she found very interesting. I though it time for isolation and told her my thoughts on the presentation we were going to have, then proposed to just go home. It's about an hour bus+metro from the campus to my place. I didn't invite her to my place though, I just proposed to leave and head towards the bus stop. She concurred and we walked while having simple conversation. I could feel she was attracted to me because of my laid back attitude as she’s the kind of girl to get massive attention from guys, especially here in Spain, being blonde and all. I could feel the jealous eyes of many a guy burning in my back when we smoothly moved off towards the bus stop. I had never before felt so comfortable with a girl of her calibre. At the bus stop it turned out we had to take different busses and mine was almost riding in. I said her good bye and see you tomorrow in school, waited a few seconds and added ''You know what, give me your number so we can chill sometime'' and before I finished my sentence she was reaching in her purse (same colour beige as her heels) to find her phone. She hadn't remembered her new Spanish number yet so had to look it up. When I had saved it, the bus opened its door right in front of me and I was off.

The same evening I texted her just for some random chat. I wasn't sure if it was too soon, but she seemed to like it. I think she wanted me to ask her out, but I didn't want to come out too needy and had other plans that evening anyway. The next morning we were both at the campus, but it was a rather busy day of choosing courses and getting other stuff sorted, so we didn’t meet. Later I texted her if she wanted to grab a coffee with me. She had fallen asleep so needed some time to freshen up, but agreed to meet me in my neighbourhood. It took her about 20 minutes of metro to get there, so she texted me when she did. I met her at the metro station 2 minutes from my place and told her we were going to a place of which I knew the manager. I had only been there once, but knew the guy as flatmate of a friend of mine. We walked there and got a warm welcome from the guy at the bar. It was around 10PM so not that busy yet. Sitting on high chairs in a corner she had a glass of sangria while I enjoyed a gin & tonic. We had nice conversation and at some point the topic came to what we found important in a partner. I said that I found it important for a partner to be a good kisser. Though there was some kino going on, this was the first real intimate conversational topic we had. She agreed with me. I asked if she were a good kisser. She didn't really know what to say, but I could see that it was the right moment. I leaned in and kiss closed. I wasn't lying when I said I found kissing important, and she was a good kisser. Then kino got better and we stayed and talked a while longer until I told her we were going somewhere else. When going to the toilet earlier I had asked my friend to recommend me a good place to take this girl, for I'm not yet that well known in Madrid. On a piece of paper he had written a name, which later I said to the taxi driver. The place looked nice from the outside, but very empty. It was 1:30AM, still too early for many bars in Madrid. We were in a neighbourhood unknown to me, but I thought there would be more bars around. Eventually we walked up to a place which played nice house-ish yet kind of sensual music. There were a couple very pumped up guys outside who showed us in. I hadn't noticed when we were outside, but now it was obvious. The place was packed with extremely muscled homosexuals. The atmosphere was very nice though, so we decided to stay. In the back there were small corners with sofas which offered some privacy. That’s where we sat down and didn't do much other than exchange a few words between all the kissing and touching. I didn't touch her boobs. At some point I got very tired and told her I was going to drop her off and go home. She then asked me if I wanted to sleep over. What an amazing moment! I hadn't expected that at all. The decision to refuse was one of great self-control, but I thought it better if I was going to take it slow and slightly more serious with this girl. I liked her and we were on quite the same level with many things. This was not an act of oneitis, but I didn’t want to bang her on the first occasion and leave her feeling used. My excuse was that the next morning I had to train on my road bike with the club, which was true. I think this was a great moment of DHV. So I dropped her off at her flat and went home to sleep.

The next day, saturday, we texted a bit and she told me she liked me. In the evening she asked me if I wanted to go out, but I was exhausted and only wanted to sleep. At around midnight when I was in bed she called me three times. I ignored the calls as if I were already asleep. I knew we had a good time, but this seemed a bit over the top in my eyes. Maybe we had a too good time?
Anyway, the next day I asked what was up that she called me, to which she replied that she just wanted to hear my voice. I was flabbergasted in a positive way. Later that day she told me she had some trouble sorting out some stuff for uni, so I offered to come over to her place and help her out. Once there I helped her and we had some fun. She was concerned about going to classes the next day as her Spanish is very bad. I comforted her and we talked a bit and kissed a bit, coming from both myself and from her, but I didn't feel that she was really into sleeping together that night. I could imagine as it was late and she had to get up early the next day to go to campus, while I had the monday off. At some point I told her I was gonna go home, so she walked me out and put her arms around my neck, kissed me and thanked me for helping her. It was almost 2AM, no more taking the metro at that hour. It would have been a 25 minute walk, which isn't bad, but I was glad that there was a bus going my way. On my way home I wanted to text her good night and tell her not to worry too much about the classes in Spanish, but she had blocked me. WTF?

I thought it was a mistake and didnt care much, but the next morning I was still blocked. Had she only used me to help her with that school related stuff? Did I screw it up because I didn't screw her? All sorts of thoughts went through my mind. I felt like texting her through SMS (we used WhatsApp before) or calling her to ask what happened. I wanted to know what I did wrong, or perhaps what I didnt do. I just couldnt understand. The vibe between us was perfect and until the moment I left her flat she showed great interest and appeal towards me. I couldnt think of much else all monday, but even though it was very hard I didn't contact her. I had consulted with a friend on what to do. He advised me not to care too much and be the man. You are the prize, not her. That's what he told me. I agreed and didn't contact her since. After that day of total confusion I pulled myself together and got over it. I though I'd see her on campus and act normal: Be nice to her and don't show any weakness. I wanted her to feel regret because she had missed out on me.
We didn't see eachother on the campus anymore and I had almost forgotten about her, when wednesday after midnight (so actually today) she apparently unblocked me and texted ''How are you Lid?'' to which I didn't reply. Who the hell does she think she is? Leaving a guy in the dark like that and then thinking I'd go kiss her ass when she feels the need? I felt humiliated for having misread this girl. I thought she was much nicer than this. Then this morning she texted ''In school?'' to which I replied about an hour later ''No im on my way''. She didn't reply, but out of curiosity I couldnt resist and texted a couple of hours later ''Why?'' to which she replied ''Just like that''. Then I new. I knew before, but this gave it some extra confirmation, that she was not worth me at all.

Still I find it a shame, because I did like her and even though she acted a real bitch, I would still love to get some bedroom action with her. At this point I am stuck. What should I do? I don't want to give in to being her puppet, but still I want to know the truth to why she acted the way she did, and also I want to have sex with her. Should I just leave it be or is there some way to make things right and put me in a powerful position to get things done anyway? Up until now I havent shown any weakness. Apparently she had thought I would come back to her on my knees, but I didnt and she texted me first. That must have done some good right?

Thanks for reading and I hope you guys can help me out with some advise on this one!


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Just thought I would leave a thank you here. Ever since I went back to uni, I have relied on a few elements mentioned in this post and I am happy with my life so far. Cheers guys!

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The other day I was able to instantly build rapport with this HB cashier by asking her an out of the box question. I asked. - "Have you tried this real maple syrup. It's got rare sugars in it that we usually don't get in our diet." And I saw her thinking and slowing down. But she instantly opened up and started talking about how her son got a cavity from grandma giving him chocolate. I am sure she went home that day thinking about me and my question.

[Edit: BTW I will be starting college this fall, thus my post.]

Now I am going to give you some questions and cold readings to get college women thinking on a deeper more emotional and intuitive level. Women don't care too much about the obvious questions they get all the time. The idea is that you want to break their repetitive thinking by asking deeper questions. So you want to stick out by asking genuine questions, with unique cold readings that are out of the ordinary.

Here are a few I can think of right now.

When you were a kid, what did you use to dream of becoming when you were older?

What motives you do get into your a career as a _______?

Name 3 reasons you choose a career as a ________?

What motives you to get into such a competitive career?

Where do you see yourself 10 years from now?

Cold reading.
Let me guess you have a family history of people in the medical field (or insert their career path here.) so you want to continue the legacy.

Let me guess you choose a psychology major since you seem you always know what is best for others?

You seem like a real go getter, but do you think your ready for a University level?

You seem like you know exactly what you want in life, but are you ready for the long hours of being a Nurse (or insert their career here).

You seem like a good girl, let me guess your going to go home tonight do your homework, study, then read, and sit down on the couch and watch sex and the city with your hot chocolate.

(Note that was a good cold reading. Also note the more specific you make a cold reading the better. And if she says: - "that's not true" you can always say - "Really, is that right, tell me why (or more)?")

You seem like a dominate type of women, I can see you in an executive position 10 years from now. You'll be bossing people around, giving orders. I thought I asked for decaf coffee. Your fired. Your doing well I give you a raise. Snap snap get to it people.

Your teeth are perfect, let me guess your going for a career as a dentist, you'll be giving orders to your assistants, and the dental hygienist. And you'll be making peoples days just a little bit brighter. Pun intended. :wink:

Some of these questions also offer a challenge to their mindset which they also love.

Try to make up and add your own to this list. Good luck, and remember game on.


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PostPosted: Wed Aug 19, 2015 5:56 am 
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Yeah, that would work well on, I think, anyone, really.

But I actually brainstormed this idea on my own. I thought of developing some kind of personal style to talking to women, one that doesn't reveal that you're "trying to flirt" with them. Instead of the usual approaches, I'd think "deep"/"emotional" topics would work really well.

Things like "what's up?" I think, are all too common, and when I myself am asked that question, I answer of course in a friendly way, but I think it's kinda boring, so I sometimes respond with "the ceiling/sky's up", lol.


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Yeah, that would work well on, I think, anyone, really.

But I actually brainstormed this idea on my own. I thought of developing some kind of personal style to talking to women, one that doesn't reveal that you're "trying to flirt" with them. Instead of the usual approaches, I'd think "deep"/"emotional" topics would work really well.

Things like "what's up?" I think, are all too common, and when I myself am asked that question, I answer of course in a friendly way, but I think it's kinda boring, so I sometimes respond with "the ceiling/sky's up", lol.


That depends on what you consider deep topics are. Traveling (good for erasmus girls, if you're european)? Dreams, hopes and aspirations?

No girl you know from nowhere really wants to start talking with a stranger about deep personal crap, it's not natural.
A "hi" usually works well. No need to act like a clown and start with "I only have a couple of minutes, but I need your opinion on something...". And flirt. By flirting I mean teasing. Otherwise you'll get friendzoned... which is good, if your point is to be seen as a girl with a penis.


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PostPosted: Mon Jul 04, 2016 5:32 pm 
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Here's how I did it.

Rented cheap shitty big house, built a bar and bp tables with neon shit, got big stereo system second hand, and began an empire. Throw massive bangers, charge 5$ for guys and have about 1 keg for every 60 people ish. We usually did about 2-3 kegs plus some jungle juice.

Ask girls "are you having fun at my party? Cause if not I may have to boot you out". This introduces you, and most girls will say "omg shelly this is his party!" and then take it from there!

Good luck. College is great, I am going back :)

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During this summer I'm living in a student dorm with a shared kitchen for each corridor. However, I'm not a student anymore. There is a really cute girl living in the same corridor as me. Whenever we bump in to each other I try to make some playful small talk. Last weekend there was a barbecue for the whole dorm, and I asked her if she was going. She said probably, but when I met her the same day she said she had gotten some other plans with friends.

I never lived in a dorm before, so I'm not really sure how to play this. There are no corridor parties and probably not anymore parties for the entire dorm. So I have to figure something out myself.

Of course I could try to hang out with her in the kitchen, maybe try to time my breakfast so it matches hers.

Any advice?

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Does any of this apply to high school? Hello my name is Tarci. I live on the Sunshine Coast in QLD Australia. I am 16 years old. I guess i am sorta new to the game but I know i'm at the bottom in regards of success. I've been unhappy for the majority of my life due to lack of confidence, Anxiety and a very reactive personality. My interests include Psychology, partying, Martial arts and learning new things. I do know i am open minded, honest and kind but I also know I'm not funny or smooth or even that effective at communication in the first place. I hope to learn from you clever people how the game is played.

Since i'm a bit younger I go to school five days a week but I go to lots of parties,raves doofs festivals. I'm not sure if I should try improve my game at school as it is a whole different dynamic to picking up people you have never met.I'm just not sure how to approach it. Does anyone have any smart advice on my issue?


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Tarcisious wrote:
I go to lots of parties,raves doofs festivals. I'm not sure if I should try improve my game at school as it is a whole different dynamic to picking up people you have never met.I'm just not sure how to approach it. Does anyone have any smart advice on my issue?



One thing you can do is get a couple mates (2-3) go out to a local mall or area you know that has a lot of people around (shopping mall, raves, etc) and practice, practice, practice! An easy way to go about doing this is to make a game out of it. A common game I did with a buddy of mine was the "or" game.

Ex.) Buddy: Go up to that girl and say her style reminds you of the Beatles..etc OR you have to do 50 push-ups in the next 30 seconds.

Your game at school, especially high school will not matter too much later on so don't overthink it. High school revolves around social circles, so if you wanna meet the baddest gals (for the time being) get to know who they hang out with and get into their circle.

Remember that people your age are just as nervous as you are, and at the end of the day everyone eats, shits, and sleeps just like you.


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You are lucky that you found this forum at 16. Try to improve your confidence and game. Try direct approach. Just don't sit in one spot and wait for others to do the job for you.

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I'm in exam season, is it worth number closing girls now to text in a couple of weeks or should I # close when I have more time? I plan to get the numbers of a couple of girls and wasn't sure of the right plan of attack.


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this is some really good advice


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Hmm I am interested here, I am in a JC college and it is easier to pick up women here if you are there and you see them all the time. My problem and with this thread is alot of time when you are gaming and have high value, you are becoming a target to getting into fights and guys trying to out Alpha male you. When Nerds come up and try to they have such low value that you have to humiliate them, try to avoid them like in a Dissing way in front of others or beat them up. They are nerds and can make your life miserable. Friends are really bad especially if they are fat girls. I also see a polarity in winning friends over where the target is really in competition and comes out the winner if she hooks up with you because she got the attention and is the better girl of the group. Alot of times they want to threesome a guy. My problem is I get stuck on closing. I used to do another guys system of letting it all out up front and telling here that you want to fuck her and be confident about it. I really do not know what to do here outside of earlier seduction methods. I really want to know what guys outside the community do to get laid. I also have trouble with girls wanting to be monogomus girlfriends and your one and only where its like I have to pick one out of so many that want to hook up. I dont get how guys hook up and get away with it outside the Pua Community.


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