look guys, i have this problem.( just for ur info i'm a highskooler and im only 16 yrs old)
i kinda screwed up wid dis 1 chik.
1st of all i saw her in skool and i broke the 3second rule by 1 month.
Then since i kinda hesitated to go up wid an opener coz i'm a newbie, i found her on myspace.
then i added her.
after that me n' her became friendz.
and we also started talkin' face to face
then i act like a wise-ass and ruin it by annoying her over a topic n' arguing a lil on msenger, while chatting.
she really got pissed off. and then wen things cant get worse, i tell her that i was just kidin' and the topic never really excisted.
2 days later i send her an offline msg, apologizing and claiming that i was drunk that night.
Now, she bloked me on messenger, and is trying to avoid me.
i need to find a way to get bak to her.
PS: this is not a chik i'd just wanna let go.

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"The first few seconds of when u meet her, always matter the most"
-A study from cambridge university

I'm kind of new at this but i sort of had the exact problem it sounds like you have one-itis. I think she already thinks of you as a friend, also I think she knows she can have you so she isn't interested all you can do is let her go and find someone that is the same type of her. Thats just my opinion.

Yeah, sounds like your stuck in the "Friend Zone" at the moment!
You can try cutting off all ties with her for a few weeks, and then start talking to her, being cocky funny.
If all else fails, move on!

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"Women are Just as Bad As Men - They're Just Better At Hidding it! So Let's Exploit that!"

A Couple things from what you posted it sounds like you were acting "needy" I almost never apologize to woman it's a sign of weakness. Chk out this post most of it is pretty good demonstrating-value-vt26.html A rule of thumb for me is if it looks like your going to get in an agrument with some woman, you need to change subject's. Anyways I agree with climax wait a couple week's then go for it again.

~Saucy

hey guyz, thnx alooot 4 ur advice, n' i hope it turnz out well.
the reason i cant stop goin 4 dis chik is not one-itis.
but the prob is that im a perfectionist and i cannot accept failure.
anyways, i know i have alot to learn, so thnx.
-Sim

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"The first few seconds of when u meet her, always matter the most"
-A study from cambridge university