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I've had this scenario occurred numerous times with multiple different girls.......
Your talking to a girl making eye contact with her at a red stop light, note she's riding passenger in your car.
The light turns green but you're still making eye contact with her, so you don't realize it.
She tells you to "Go" in a demanding tone.
-- Fuck that! Clear shit test. Cars behind you ain't going to run over you if you go x amount of seconds after it turns green. I have 2 ways to deal with this and they go as follows:
Option 1 Me: "Don't talk to me in that tone. If the light turns green and I don't realize it, you can kindly let me know and I will go when I'm ready." (While telling her this in a firm, loving tone)
Option 2 Me: Pay more attention to the light so she doesn't have a chance to shit test me.
Personally I like option 1 because I don't want to change my behavior in order to stop her from shit testing me. I wanna do what I want! If she shit tests then bring it on! I can handle it!
I wanna know thoughts from experienced people regarding this scenario. How would you handle it?
Wow.
As Jack said, you're losing a grip. Stop the PU reading and be a human being. If I'm crossing the street to meet a chick, and a car comes speeding about to hit me and the chick says "Run!" or "Look out!!"...its not a shit test. Sure, not take disrespect, but if a chick is in your car and she likes you, her yelling a warning to you is not "demanding" nor a "test." If she says "bitch! go!" yeah you got a disrespectful chick. If she just screams "Go!" odds are she's scared or overly nervous about being the car holding up traffic and getting honks. Same way if she sees a spider she may yell "Spider!"
Now, that being said, I've been in the situation where I'm driving and may be touching or kissing a chick in the passenger seat, the light turns green, she tells me its green and I continue touching her up in a "Im so turned on by you, i dont care" kinda way. But not because I assume she's shit testing me or being demanding, its flirting, plus not to the point where I'm there blocking traffic for more than a few seconds. It's self aware...not this over serious "let me correct your tone" kinda shit.