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PostPosted: Fri Aug 11, 2017 11:12 pm 
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So I was watching this video where Mystery was going through his method, and he mentioned that one thing he likes to do after introducing himself to women (like maybe in the first 10 to 20 mins of meeting them) is tell stories that raise your value, stories that demonstrate you're the leader of men and/or have an abundance of women.

He gave some example that I could never use, where the punchline is about him being the devil or something (It works for him because he has that punk/emo appearance). My question is, what are some other potential canned stories that demonstrate you're the leader of men or have an abundance of women?

I tried coming up with some and struggled with creating stories that don't make me come off as a tool who's trying too hard. I feel like you need to be at least somewhat subtle when indicating that you have an abundance of women or boss men around.


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PostPosted: Sat Aug 12, 2017 1:02 am 
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backIntheGame91 wrote:
So I was watching this video where Mystery was going through his method, and he mentioned that one thing he likes to do after introducing himself to women (like maybe in the first 10 to 20 mins of meeting them) is tell stories that raise your value, stories that demonstrate you're the leader of men and/or have an abundance of women.


No, just no.

Socially valuable women see through this shit. A dominant male doesn't need to talk about how many women he has, or how he bosses men around.

He oozes it.


His body language says it. His fitness says it. How he dresses says it. How not-nervous he speaks says it. His slight indifference says it. His playfulness says it. The fact he doesn't need to yap-yap-yap all night long says it.




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what are some other potential canned stories that demonstrate you're the leader of men or have an abundance of women?


Why do you want a canned story?

Live in the moment. Be organic. Riff off of what is in front of you. Be a magician, not canned goods.

Example:

I'm in a bar, and introduce myself to a girl(and she to me), and I'm standing by her. A really hot waitress walks past, and you check her out (congruent, you're out looking to get laid, the girl you're next to knows this).

You to the girl as you point at the waitress and grin: Fake or real?
Girl: Fake. But she is hot.


So, right away, by being playfully honest, you've included this girl you might be interested in, in a game of "spot the fake tits".

And already, you're talking about tits and sexualizing the conversation (congruent). And you're using playful, shocking honesty.

No canned story needed. You make use of what the world presents to you, in real time, organically. and it teaches you to live in the moment. Most men are weak, and already thinking relationship and it gives off such a desperate vibe.

Ever hear of "Buzz Killington" from Family Guy? That's the effect canned stories have:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_Y63B-5CWRU

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PostPosted: Sun Aug 20, 2017 2:40 am 
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backIntheGame91 wrote:
So I was watching this video where Mystery was going through his method, and he mentioned that one thing he likes to do after introducing himself to women (like maybe in the first 10 to 20 mins of meeting them) is tell stories that raise your value, stories that demonstrate you're the leader of men and/or have an abundance of women.


No, just no.

Socially valuable women see through this shit. A dominant male doesn't need to talk about how many women he has, or how he bosses men around.

He oozes it.


His body language says it. His fitness says it. How he dresses says it. How not-nervous he speaks says it. His slight indifference says it. His playfulness says it. The fact he doesn't need to yap-yap-yap all night long says it.




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what are some other potential canned stories that demonstrate you're the leader of men or have an abundance of women?


Why do you want a canned story?

Live in the moment. Be organic. Riff off of what is in front of you. Be a magician, not canned goods.

Example:

I'm in a bar, and introduce myself to a girl(and she to me), and I'm standing by her. A really hot waitress walks past, and you check her out (congruent, you're out looking to get laid, the girl you're next to knows this).

You to the girl as you point at the waitress and grin: Fake or real?
Girl: Fake. But she is hot.


So, right away, by being playfully honest, you've included this girl you might be interested in, in a game of "spot the fake tits".

And already, you're talking about tits and sexualizing the conversation (congruent). And you're using playful, shocking honesty.

No canned story needed. You make use of what the world presents to you, in real time, organically. and it teaches you to live in the moment. Most men are weak, and already thinking relationship and it gives off such a desperate vibe.

Ever hear of "Buzz Killington" from Family Guy? That's the effect canned stories have:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_Y63B-5CWRU


So you're against canned stories in general. I think that canned stories can be very good so long as you don't make them sound canned. More than a few famous PUA's would agree with this, not just Mystery. Good story tellers do canned stories with ease. Professional comedians retell stories thousands of times.

I'm a good story teller, and I have some canned stories that are interesting or funny but don't necessarily demonstrate higher value in terms of displaying my abundance with women or leadership of men. My stories go over pretty good generally, but I was hoping I could make them even better.

I agree that in the moment, organic stuff is very good. But sometimes I have no organic things to say. That's when it's good to transition into a canned story.


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PostPosted: Sun Aug 20, 2017 6:49 pm 
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Canned stories might get you a same night lay on a lower value chick, but it's a case of 'fake it till you make it". Experienced women will see right through it. You have to come up with your own material organic to you, and having the ability to come up with these on the spot will go a long way.

By all means look at the ones the Pros use as examples, but come up with your own that relate to you and your life, and stories which can be backed up with evidence. Even better if you can slide into a story relating to a subject she has just talked about.

Unfortunately it takes practice.


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canned material will leave you with nothing to say after they run up
get an exiting life and have something to talk about with no need to qualify yourself with these story's,also it will be true story's


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PostPosted: Sun Aug 20, 2017 9:10 pm 
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backIntheGame91 wrote:

So you're against canned stories in general.



Not for a girl you want to be in a relationship with (IE, revealing "secrets" and getting to know each other after sex, etc). But for seduction and first night meets? Yes, I'm against them.


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I think that canned stories can be very good so long as you don't make them sound canned.



Then you have to work at "making them not sound canned" which in and of itself is canned manipulation. This is not living in the moment, this is not being true to yourself, and who you are. Canned routines are created out of fear and insecurity, because a man is terrified of silence with women, or potential awkward moments, or rejection.



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More than a few famous PUA's would agree with this, not just Mystery. Good story tellers do canned stories with ease. Professional comedians retell stories thousands of times.


Of course they do. It's their job. But when you watch the routine, anyone with a brain can tell it's a routine, as good as the comedian may or may not be.

And remember, if you're engaging in "routines" you're doing most of the talking, which is not the behavior of a dominant male.


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I'm a good story teller, and I have some canned stories that are interesting or funny but don't necessarily demonstrate higher value in terms of displaying my abundance with women or leadership of men. My stories go over pretty good generally, but I was hoping I could make them even better.


Write a book then. And learn to engage women in real time, in the moment with your authentic self, without fear of outcome.

Or save the stories for when you've been with a girl a few times, and she says in bed "tell me a secret about you".

Splurging out canned routines about your life is not attractive, mysterious behavior, IMHO. Neither are canned routines that demonstrate "DHV". If a girl is begging you to reveal things, you're doing things right and she's on her way to loving you.



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I agree that in the moment, organic stuff is very good. But sometimes I have no organic things to say.


Learn to embrace the silence then. And embrace awkwardness. Dominant, secure males don't fear silence with women. In fact, an emotionally-centered man thrives in such moments. Silence, like words and body language is part of seduction. Use it to your advantage.

Someone once said about the great band Pink Floyd (which sound like no one else, ever), that it wasn't just the notes they played, it was also that the band wasn't afraid to "leave spaces between the notes".

you must not fear silence. In those moments, a woman can feel your strength, and you her femininity. It is nature talking, and it's hotter than you telling a story for the tenth time that night.

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