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Lol you know all these friends who get blocked... Even in relationships so why not ask them for advice or why isn't it easier for you to not accept a block and move on?
Yeah, I know a number of guys who have 3-5 girl rotations and from time to time one will drop off the radar and block. The relationship one is less frequent but it does happen, I was just trying to illustrate a point. I don't ask them because these guys are just good with women, be it cold approach, social circle, etc. and they don't seem to know what they're doing right. They're also all particularly good looking (better than me, and all taller)
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You know women block essily.. So why are you chasing them after a block? You know friends who fuck..
Yeah, I know it can be common for women to easily block. I was countering your point that blocking was a severe move for her and that I must have done something really fucked up to deserve a block, rather than just a flake. I was illustrating the ease and commonness of using the block function these days, which you seem to have, in your mind, only reserved for rapists or murderers.
But yeah, I still think it's fucked up and was trying to get to the bottom of why.
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You have all this success...
I've never contended that for myself. In one of my earlier posts I mentioned that I've had lots of success before, but it's never been easy and always takes **EFFORT** Then pop culture changes, the girls change, and here I am back at the forums.
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You've heard that guys get blocked easily.. But have never heard a girl bailing after being let down sexually? As you said.. Never? Lol... Dude you're talking erratic ally and contradicting yourself.
It's not erratic or contradictory at all. Yes, I know that guys get blocked easily, usually with no explanation given, especially in my experience.
No, I have never heard of a girl blocking a guy and disappearing out of the blue like that because she was willing to go to home plate with the guy, but he simply didn't please her sexually that night.
Again, I've had other women where I did far worse, got a worse reception, but still was granted multiple tries to get it right.
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Even you said you knew something was up and she blocked you before your message.. So why is it when I repeat that it irks you?
I knew something was up because it just had the feel of a girl who has disappeared. Or something bad happened.
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Guess what.. She didn't allow you to make her cum. Give one reason why? And if she shouldn't have blocked you then why did she?
I'll give you a few.
- Anti-slut defense,
- Last minute resistance.
- "Talked a good game" on sex during the date, but once in my room she decided it clashed with her morality on a first date.
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Anyways seek medication.. Because you're nuts.
Nuts? Okay, whatever you say, and that's not your call.
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What are you diagnosed with?
I'm not formally diagnosed with anything. I'm simply seeing a therapist to help with angry reactions to girls holding their time as more valuable than mine, keeping me around as an "option among many" and disappearing on me with no explanation. I started therapy after the snow storm date at my place.
We agree that my continuing to see this therapist is beneficial because it's helping with resolving the anger issue.
Not that it's any of your business, but I've tried the med route. Nothing works. We're talking years of trying different prescriptions.
Either they make a you a fat fuck who can't even get hard and doesn't have a sex drive (Zoloft and other SSRI's), make you too trusting, or make you start saying some pretty stupid stuff, hindering your judgement (Xanax and other Benzo's.)
For a time when I was trying out the different SSRI's with my doctor, I was so relaxed and complacent that I couldn't give two shits if the sun came up the next morning. I woke up one day and thought to myself "this is no way to live. This isn't right." Meds are out. Believe me, I've tried.