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ace_of_spades
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 Posted: Thu Jan 31, 2008 8:31 pm Post subject: Gaming High |
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Brothers, one piece of advice: never smoke weed with a girl you're gaming but haven't fclosed.
Just happened to me; I'm usually very analytical about my sarges, I always think about the stage I'm in and when and how I should transition.
Long story short - I was gaming HB8greek for a while; my game was flawless even though she was a tough one (high bitch-shield initially; a number of shit tests afterwards). She was really good practice - and I was about to f-close her at her own party in her seriously expensive apartment (long story; ask if you want the details but no new or amazing techniques here) when it turned out she had some sort of infection going on. DAMN!
A month later we finally agreed to meet up at mine and smoke pot (neither of us drinks; I can't say I'm that experienced with weed but I was willing to try); which we did, to my delight, did. But from then on in my game was absolutely terrible. Kino felt really awkward; conversation did not stick; and she's very logical and analytical about everything. Long and short of it, I was completely off-guard. She caught me say something contradictory no less than a dozen times. I reeked of incongruity.
I tried to rescue myself with a few sloppy routines (cube, strawberry fields, q test, cs vs us, a number cold read that I made up on the spot - every personality test I knew). But I was doing so terribly she actually fell asleep. She left half an hour later, with the most awkward goodbye I think I've ever had.
I can't possibly understand what people enjoy about weed, and I don't intend to do it again in the nearest future.
Anybody else ever sarged high? Did you guys have similar sort of experiences?
P.S. I am still high, and although I proof-read the whole post, please pardon all gramatical errors. |
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Yeah dude...seriously smoking and sarging does not work for me...i feel so sloppy.
Drinking a LITTLE is ok...for me...but i seriously have to start forcing myself to NOT do anything because there's no way you can accurately act accordingly to the situation if you're "altered" . |
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| Posted: Fri Feb 01, 2008 1:16 am Post subject: |
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| Bro, I know EXACTLY what you mean when you say kino was awkward. I'm useless if I'm stoned. I think if you smoke all the time you get used to it, but for us guys who almost never smoke, it totally makes you incongruent. Plus, the entire time I would think- "this chick totally knows what I'm doing" |
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| Hmm, no absolutely not a good idea to sarge stoned. Alters your mindset guys, come on. Unless you area habitual smoker then you practice game while stoned, which I dont highly recommend. You lose alot of perception in sarging or gaming. That isn't cool guys!! But if you can run game and be in that altered state of mind, then you got skills! |
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| Posted: Fri Feb 01, 2008 1:57 am Post subject: |
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| THC raises the level of awareness. On fifth gear they showed that smoking pot can actually improve driving safety as you are aware of the fact that you're high and you're being extra cautious whereas drinking promotes risk taking. I happened to be in public a number of times while high and I decided to socialize a bit. I felt very "naked" to the world. I felt as if people could see through me or something. I felt as if they were picking things they hated about me, not the greatest experience. |
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| Posted: Fri Feb 01, 2008 2:37 am Post subject: |
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| Lion wrote: | | THC raises the level of awareness. On fifth gear they showed that smoking pot can actually improve driving safety as you are aware of the fact that you're high and you're being extra cautious whereas drinking promotes risk taking. I happened to be in public a number of times while high and I decided to socialize a bit. I felt very "naked" to the world. I felt as if people could see through me or something. I felt as if they were picking things they hated about me, not the greatest experience. |
In some ways it raises your awareness, but only of things that you take notice of and it is a lot harder to be aware of lots of things at once because you tend to focus on those few things you took notice of.
I'd definitely suggest not sarging stoned unless you are good at sarging and smoke regularly, but even then you don't want more than a small hit, or you'll become useless.
Sounds to me like there wasn't much of a connection between Ace and the girl, because I usually find girls get less inhibited after smoking a bowl. I think you need to develop a level of comfort and trust before you can both relax in that state though and that's where the sex part comes in, because if you've had sex, then you generally have that comfort and trust, or you wouldn't have been able to have sex yet. |
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the problem lies in the lack of knowledge here.
The basic effect that THC (the active ingredient in cannabis) has on your body, in layman's terms is that you will become more aware to detail of a particular object, while becoming less aware of all the other things around you.
Now, because of the way you described your high, I'll describe your (hopefully old) AFC tendencies. You (used to) feel akward around girls, and hardly ever had physical contact with them, and you "over analyzed" every situation without a guide to analyze. It also sounds to me like the girl doesn't have much experience with cannabis, which could have really lead to a great time.
Next time, if you do decide to smoke again, have the time after you toke up planned, to some extent. When I smoke, I know that if I start thinking, I'll get lost in my thoughts (take that sentence literally my friends...not pleasant at all...), so I either have a girl with me, or my music. By focusing in on either the auditory sensations of the music, or the physical sensations with the girl, the high becomes immensely pleasurable.
And for anyone who might find themselves in this situation, here's a helping hand. Explain to the girl that you're focus becomes selectively sharper while high, and tell her to focus on the physical sensation, and not thought processes. Combine that with the energy NLP pattern, and you WILL close that night.
basically, what i'm saying is,
Don't Think and Smoke. |
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I went to a party one night and I started out running the place jumping from set to set but then a few of us went out back and smoked a few to many blunts and the rest of the night consisted of me eating an entire pizza and staring at a wall for about 2 hours.
The morale of the story is smoking and sarging do not mix  . |
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| but different people also have different reaction to weed, so unless u know that person for a while and have witnessed them smoking and saw what it does for them then u know what to expect, i get sleepy for exapmle so i just dont drink and dont smoke when there is a goal of gaming, but if with ur friends(along with girlfriends) it could be a bonding experience... |
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The point is: I was with a girl I had previously made out with on quite a few occasions and the only thing that stopped me from having sex with her earlier was her goddamn infection - and I still fucked up. I'd like to think it was weed - hopefully I don't give up my frame that easily in reality.
The situation was already in comfort - like I said, she was comfortable around me, comfortable enough to remove her clothes and not feel bad the next day. Essentially I got cock-blocked by Mary Jane. I had gotten requests to describe the sarge in detail - field report coming up. |
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Some of you asked me for details of the sarge - here it is. Hope it's a fun read, I tried to make it not-too-dry.
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