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Baner
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 Posted: Thu Nov 01, 2007 12:27 am Post subject: Game on Guys |
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This title may suggest a little homosexuality, but i assure it isn't about that. I have recently decided that i was going to be the guy that had a bunch of friends, always someone to hang out with. Up until i never really put effort into getting new guy friends to hang out with and i just now realized that i need more of them.
So, as i got to work on it i ended up meeting a lot of new cool guys/people. I have come to realize that i have many acquaintances now. Im on a first name basis with these guys and if we happen to see eachother out at a party we will hang out and do the "guy thing." The problem is that we are only acquaintances, we are not at the point where they will call me to go hang out and do stuff or whatever. It seems like everyone has their set group and even ifthey like you its hard to make headway with them.
How do i turn my acquaintances into friends?
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arkmandluxe
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| Posted: Thu Nov 01, 2007 12:51 am Post subject: Re: Game on Guys |
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| Baner wrote: | This title may suggest a little homosexuality, but i assure it isn't about that. I have recently decided that i was going to be the guy that had a bunch of friends, always someone to hang out with. Up until i never really put effort into getting new guy friends to hang out with and i just now realized that i need more of them.
So, as i got to work on it i ended up meeting a lot of new cool guys/people. I have come to realize that i have many acquaintances now. Im on a first name basis with these guys and if we happen to see eachother out at a party we will hang out and do the "guy thing." The problem is that we are only acquaintances, we are not at the point where they will call me to go hang out and do stuff or whatever. It seems like everyone has their set group and even ifthey like you its hard to make headway with them.
How do i turn my acquaintances into friends?
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Dude. You dont game on guys. Just talk about random stuff. Guy things. Hang out with them more. Maybe you need to just talk more and get in their conversations. Thats all i can help u with. |
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MikeTyson
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| I've found with guys it's always best to gamble and do lots of kino early on. Try that 'devil' story or whatever it's called on a set of guys. It works great too. You also should try to get one of the more popular guys drunk and f-close him. You can blackmail him into being your wingman. Never underestimate the value of having no shame. It's good for your inner game. |
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CaLib0i
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| MikeTyson wrote: | | I've found with guys it's always best to gamble and do lots of kino early on. Try that 'devil' story or whatever it's called on a set of guys. It works great too. You also should try to get one of the more popular guys drunk and f-close him. You can blackmail him into being your wingman. Never underestimate the value of having no shame. It's good for your inner game. |
are you fucking serious???pwahahahaha!!!! |
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MikeTyson
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| Yeah, it's a skill I picked up early on. I used to have a lot of approach anxiety. This was a problem I quickly remedied by going to gay bars. There was so much less pressure approaching sets there. Eventually, I worked my way up to women. Gaming 'straight' guys is hard but it's doable. The only difference between a gay guy and a straight guy is half a fifth. |
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Classick
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naw dude, don't look at guys that way at all
i have friends, then i have my BOYS, my boys consist of a very tiny group of guys, who i consider role models in a way to me, other alphas, who i can brightly shine amongst.
never underestimate the garden you grow in, pick the best possible friends to be down with, be that guy who is likable and knows everyone, but make sure those who are closest to you, are those who will never bring you down, always make you better, help you grow in a positive manner. when you talk to a girl about energy, outlook and personality thats also what you want in your best friends, otherwise you can't really become a better person hanging out with them, i look at my closest friends and constantly think, what can i learn from him.
and while people this great are rare, you will notice they are usually the alphas you want to become more like. look for a mentor as well as a friend. |
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