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achtungiono
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 Posted: Sun Dec 09, 2007 4:53 pm Post subject: Gaining Confidence, Help |
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Hey
One of the biggest reasons why many guys don't succed with getting women is that they have a big ego and are afraid of getting rejected.
When you were a kid you didn't have a ego and you didn't really care so much about what other thought about you.
Mystery and those guys don't get women because they wear goggles, it's the confidence behind it, they don't care what other people think when they are being looked at.
How do you reach this type of confidence? Experience? |
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kvee
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| exercise....work out... start sculpting your body.. you will feel like you accomplished something (which you did) and you will look good look and feel good from inside out.. start flirty conversations with girls everyday and maintain eye contact with a girl even when she looks away keep looking at her and she will look back and smile... girls don't diss you because of you..they diss you because of your game... and everybody knows you can always improve your game its just a matter how hard you want to work ...and if you have that mentality rejection is nothing you just brush it off and keep trying the material you learned ...if you strive for something and want something enough you will get it eventually.. its all a matter of hard work.. and time.. keep that in your head and you will look at rejection as a way to improve your self... just be like i got rejected this time that means i did something wrong.. now i gotta go get better and try again and you might get a little farther but then rejected and so on.. keep trying , think positive, exercise and you will see an improvement within at least 1-6 months depending on how hard you work! |
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nuked
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You asked how Mystery did it? Mystery just went out and faced rejection. He took rejection, not as a failure but as a learning experience. So, then no matter whether he was successful or was rejected he learned something.
I personally always had a big ego, so I used my ego as my defense to rejection. I'M NUKED LOVE ME! If you concentrate your ego on confidence and realize that you are above the bullshit everything is simple.
There's one PUA by the name of Zan who had the mentality that no matter who a girl was they wanted him, and that no matter what they said was a IOI. Obviously this is a little extreme but he used his ego as his shield against rejection. |
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