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MonsterE316
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 Posted: Mon Aug 13, 2007 2:36 am Post subject: Friend Zone from AFC |
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i posted here cuz ive never tried this before. Havent been and AFC for a couple of months now but Im still living the consquences from my AFC days. I have 1 or 2 friends that I used to call all the time, yet they never called me. Basically being like their best friend waiting for them to make the move. How do I get out of this mess. Theres one that transfered schools so I wont see her that much if at all. I figured the first thing I should do is not call or try to communicate with her for awhile but then what? Do I call her and try to meet her for coffee or dinner or hope to run in to her, or just let em go and move on to others. Its more or less my cocky side coming out and not wanting to be remembered as that guy.  |
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Wombosi
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| If I were you, I'd wait till you were comfortable enough with the game, to game your ex-one-itis friends. |
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VEE
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| Posted: Mon Aug 13, 2007 10:36 pm Post subject: |
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| drop your social circle and start over..make new friends that actually call you back.. |
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Reset
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I totally agree with the guys here.
Start gaming new people. The game is not about gaming this one girl you used to know.
Is about building a life and beginning a new chapter. Build a new social circle (It's easier than you'd think).
Later,(if you still want) when you go out with one of your new girls, call one of them to join you and build some jealousy.
BUT, if they don't call you you don't really want that people in your life.
BE a high-valued guy, don't just try to demonstrate that you are. |
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marudam
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Dear Monester I am more or less in the same situation like you .
But I did something at the end. (yet I dont know if it was a stupid or good one)
we know each other for 6 months and it was a F close failure case (I was toooooo nice and messed it)
I went to her with a small gift. and I said that I hate her... because of her unclear actions blah blah.... after that she seems consider me in different level but still the communication is quite ambiquous.
As you said this pushes us in AFC pit. and as far as we lie there it is difficult to get to a play the game. |
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BlackBull
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That's rough dude.I'm in a certain situation myself.It can be frustrating at times.
From you're post,I'm assuming you're a HS or College student.
If it's HS,forget the past.Rep is the #1 crippling factor in HS,and you've probably been burnt by bad rep.
If you're in college,people dont tend to look at rep,so you're free to make a new social circle.
Ditch you're old friends.They probably want to make a new start,and unfortunately,may want to forget where they came from,which includes you and everyone else they knew.
Spread out.Talk to more people.
Clinging on to the past,especially if it wasn't how you wanted it to be,can be a bothersome burden to deal with.Best to set yourself free by moving forward.
Good luck. |
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