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Pirty
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 Posted: Mon Aug 13, 2007 5:31 pm Post subject: French HB8 Crashed |
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Was at a dead sandwhich joint today with my friend, when i was served by this hot french 8. I knew i had to open her but AFC'd up big time. This was my first effort at Day game so admittedly i was nervous as anything. Firstly i felt i had no decent openers for a girl serving me a sandwhich at a counter (Though managed light cocky funny convo about a shocking puppet show outside whilst ordering saved my ass slightly) and secondly my friend was there who has no idea about the whole Pua thing which kinda freaked me a little. She was smiling and staring constantly while i was eating (An Ioi i guess) but i had absolutly nothing to give back apart from a rye smile and a wave.
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Apollo
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| Posted: Mon Aug 13, 2007 5:56 pm Post subject: |
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Don't stress over openers. It is better to say anything than nothing at all. I think it would have been funny if you opened her like-
"So... Come here often?" in a cheesy, faux-suave look. She would have loved it because it is blatently obvious she works there and is there all the time...
But like I said, the opener is trivial compared to how you compose the rest of the convo. Just keep her interest and make yourself seem important.
"I just came from a huge recording contract and I made the company a half-million. Can I treat you to one of your own sandwiches?" And since the place is dead, ask her to come and sit with you.
Golden. |
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jinla
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girls at work are always hard b/c they are busy and you don't know if they're are being nice b/c its their job to.
so two things gotta happen, be fast and discreet. i'm not the best in the world but two approaches that have worked for me.
3 second rule is of utmost importance here, as soon as your done ordering, ask say:
PUA: how is your day going so far?
HBF: good/bad (probably smiling)
PUA: bet you can wait to get off work
HB: yes, you right
PUA: what time will that be
HB: time
PUA: Great, i can be here then, shall we meet up? (for whatever, e.g. coffee, if she doesn't work in coffee shop of course)
HB: sure/not today, but how about tommorrow/fuck off
either way you can walk a way a proud man, you did what u were supposed to do.
Another one that actually worked for me.
discreetly pass her a note that says
"hi i am PUA, i like your smile/eyes/ass (smiley face), what is your number?"
sounds childish but who can turn down a love letter. she WILL give u a #, it just might be fake.
Remember, be fast but also smooth and confident. Try to look like it was spontaneous, and not like you have been mulling it over on some sort internet blog. |
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Pirty
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| Posted: Mon Aug 13, 2007 6:08 pm Post subject: |
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| Cheers! Will have to keep that in mind. |
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diapente
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| jinla wrote: | girls at work are always hard b/c they are busy and you don't know if they're are being nice b/c its their job to.
so two things gotta happen, be fast and discreet. i'm not the best in the world but two approaches that have worked for me.
3 second rule is of utmost importance here, as soon as your done ordering, ask say:
PUA: how is your day going so far?
HBF: good/bad (probably smiling)
PUA: bet you can wait to get off work
HB: yes, you right
PUA: what time will that be
HB: time
PUA: Great, i can be here then, shall we meet up? (for whatever, e.g. coffee, if she doesn't work in coffee shop of course)
HB: sure/not today, but how about tommorrow/fuck off
either way you can walk a way a proud man, you did what u were supposed to do.
Another one that actually worked for me.
discreetly pass her a note that says
"hi i am PUA, i like your smile/eyes/ass (smiley face), what is your number?"
sounds childish but who can turn down a love letter. she WILL give u a #, it just might be fake.
Remember, be fast but also smooth and confident. Try to look like it was spontaneous, and not like you have been mulling it over on some sort internet blog. |
I agree. It's better to approach and run some direct game instead of not saying anything at all. |
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negsta
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Exactly, you'll always regret what you didn't do.
.....Or [i]who[/i] you didn't do. 8) |
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