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yeah I like scents approach!
Alot of the time when we women say "oh no i cant..im not a slut.." its because they want to, but dont want you to think they are a slut..or dont want to admit it to themselves.. its different from them saying "oh i dont want to because i dont like you in that way.." ... trust me!
and enough of this bullshit about having a connection and shit!! You guys watch too many romantic movies or something.. once a guy starts talking about sparks and feeling and connections too early on (or ever at all in some cases) the bullshit detector flies off the radar.. its cute in films and books but in real life we know that guys don't really think this or feel this, unless they are a very specific type of gentle, poetry loving, yoga practicing, flower sniffing friend-zone friend.. which some girls are into i suppose..
but we will ALWAYS know when you are just pretending to be one of these..
sorry about my massive rant from your one word! i just keep hearing about this kind of talk, and the only time when it works is when we are into you anyway, and we are flattered that you are making the effort to bullshit us.. it could make us feel wanted in a strange way i guess!!
good luck
Oh Christ, you've successfully reversed 5 years of male sensitivity progression, lol.
The key word that I agree with in your rant is "pretending." Yes, many modern, smart, quality women can absolutely smell when you are pretending to be a modern Casanova. However, if you're hypothetically in the midst of direct day game and jumping into instant rapport, you have to be emotionally and truthfully available in order for the technique to work.
When the technique is done well, it's enough to make a hard bitch like me melt and get puppy dog eyes. I don't like to admit this is possible... but it happens when someone "earns" it.
Anyway, point is, don't blanket-statement these guys with "girls don't like romance." When done well and when calibrated correctly, girls do like it. You're correct in stating that if it reeks of ulterior motive, we can smell it.