Wilde
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 Posted: Fri Feb 22, 2008 1:16 pm Post subject: FR and advice |
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Alright! So Wednesday night I was working a club in London; lots of friends were there, mainly girls, and also Lioness with 3 of her girlfriends.
I'm there early as i'm working it, and I pop out at 7.30pm to get some food. A text arrives on my phone from Lioness asking me to ring her as she's low on credit and lost, so I do, and she's like,
"Can you come and get us? We're lost."
"Err, not really, i'm kinda busy right now, find out which road you're on and I'll give you directions."
"Okay, ring me back in a minute."
Rang her back 5 minutes later,
"Okay, we're on road X."
Gave her some directions, and ended up meeting her on a street corner as she was nearby. Hugs all round, generally positive greetings.
Got inside, i'd got her free entry, all her friends still had to pay though, and I would sit with her for short periods of time, dashing off every few minutes to talk to people, and greet my friends who were arriving in drabs, lots of loud greetings from female friends which I hope she saw as it's awesome social proof.
Sat back down with her and she goes,
"Your hair smells really nice" and got her friend to lean in and smell my hair, then got quite on with the kino, she was complimenting me on my stubble, and I was touching her neck to which she remarks, "I get so weird about people touching my neck, and I just let you." As if she was spelling it out that she trusts me or something?
Anyway, I go off, speak to other friends, go back to her and ask if she wants a drink.
"Yes please."
"Okay, give us your money then"
"Huh?"
"I'm not paying for everything for you missy!"
She gave me her money, I got her a drink, all good. Later I introduced her to some of my friends as she came to the bar with me.
We're holding hands the whole way back from the bar, and she leans in and kisses me on the cheek, but like, a long kiss, not just a peck. Holding hands, watching this band, and then I go in for the proper kiss, I get it, and literally we're making out for 45 minutes straight, and it's good, damn good.
After a while, her friends who are clearly getting a bit bored announce "We're going somewhere else. Let's go, come with."
"I can't, i'm working"
"Well, sorry, us 3 can't hang around for Lioness and you."
And even though she showed a little tiny bit of resistance, she had to go with them because she was staying at one of their houses. So that was the end of that, they left.
Her friend, Vulture, was a little off with me all night, possibly because of some super super AFC texts i'd sent her towards when I first met Lioness about Lioness. I dunno.
Anyway, my initial thought was, "freeze her out". But then I realised i'd be punishing her for essentially, nothing. Okay, she wasn't protesting against going which did suck, but then I know she knows how to play games so she knows what effect keeping distance can have.
I actually haven't got in touch with her yet because I'm waiting 'til this afternoon. Gonna ring her say, "I'm going to the cinema with a couple of friends tonight, fancy tagging along?"
But I am worried because I haven't heard from her yet either, and her friends seem to be a bit off with me? Maybe they're jealous I'm demanding a lot of Lioness' attention or maybe they just don't like me, i'm not sure, but I'm worried they're gonna have some sort of effect over Lioness towards me.
So what to do about the friends? I'm just gonna play it cool with Lioness, unless you think I should do different?
Cheers,
Wilde |
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