I'll be brief. November last year i started seeing this girl, saw eachother a lot. we were both very into it. we got on really great in every aspect of the relationship apart from sex. it was good, just not great. i had strong feelings for her though, and she got into my head pretty bad.

because of the sex it cooled off, but we still were hanging out just not sexually, but it felt like the vibe was still there. we didn't see eachother over xmas so for 2 weeks but we met up today and its like we've been friends for years. being with her was fine, we were joking, laughing, teasing etc. but now i'm away from her i feel similar to how i did when we first started seeing eachother, however im not thinking about her sexually. its clear from the way she acted today though that it was just a fling

do you think i'm in love with this girl? or i just want to spend time with a girl and am being needy and have oneits?

thanks, Tom

Got on great apart from sex? Do you mean sex did not take place? Or sex did take place and was bad?

we had a fair amount of sex, and it was good, but not great.

wtf? Why wouldn't you want to tap that ass like a proper man? You were weak when you fucked her. Is that the way you want her to remember you?

Go read the "How to fuck like an Alpha male" thread.

And why would you say you're in love or have oneitis. You say you don't think about her sexually. Doesn't make sense.

Are you really trying to help?


Or you are joking, im always confused with you

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Oh! You've gotta be kidding me!

100% serious

Dont worry, he's confused too.

i don't think you are in love, by my definition anyway. being in love is a mutual feeling, or should be anyway. do you get that feeling sometimes that the two of you aren't going anywhere and that she is with you out of convience? if so then it's definitely not love.