stylewizzle
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 Posted: Sat Apr 19, 2008 12:13 am Post subject: FIRST SOLID # CLOSE, NEED HELP ON CALLING AND FIRST DATE |
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So last night I went to a frat party in my college, and # closed for the first time since I got into this community a month ago. 2 of my friends were playing beer pong against each other with a HB8 and a HB7, and I saw another HB8 standing there watching. So went up to them and stand right next to the girl who is watching and said hi to my friends first. Then I asked her why she was standing here, she looks so bored. So I called next game and asked her if she wants to play, and she said no. so I asked her if she’s a boring person and told her I ll show her something cool, so I did ESP on her and it worked like a charm. Now she’s a little more into me, so I asked her to tell me something cool, and naturally, she said she has nothing. So I said I can’t even talk to you, you are so boring, and turned my head, and guess what, 10 seconds later, she offered to tell me something funny, and her story was lame, and told her that. at this point, another guy came to the table and called next game. then I said I have next game, and I told her I don’t mind if she wants to play next, she said she doesn’t have a partner and of course that’s an IOI and an offer, so I accepted it. Then I told her a really good joke that made her cracking up. During the pong game we had a discussion of who should get the beer, and I told her she’s a sexist to think the guy should get the beer and I can’t even talk to her. I got the beer in the end, but she went to get beer the second time without me telling her. So the pong game went well, lots of negs and kino after each scoring. We won in the end.
I asked her to dance, she said she has to join friends, so I went to the dance floor and danced with other girls. Then I found her at the alcohol place and took a shot with her, then we danced, then she bounced again, and I found her dancing with some other guy. I don’t kno wut that means, so I took it as a shit test, so I did not wonder around, I just talked to my friends and danced with other girls while shes dancing, I thought she saw me but not sure. And this dancing with her then she bounce then I do something else cycle happened 2 more times. Then finally I was about to go, she was just sitting on the bench with those 2 girls and my 2 friends. I went there and sat right next to her and told her im about to leave, and I ll tell her one more interesting thing, so I started to do the CUBE, but when we were just on the second question, my friend Wing asked me to go, so I said sorry I have to go, but we can finish this conversation some other day, so I asked for her name for the 3rd time, and she told me its HOTTIE, I said I bet u don’t remember my name, she said she knows and ur name is COOLGUY. Then i put her name in my phone and I hand my phone to her and said, here HOTTIE, put ur # in there, I ll call u when I have time, she did. And I stood up and gave her a hug and bounced.
Some questions: she dances with other guys= shit test? Or not? Is she into me? What did I do well, what did I do wrong? When should I call her, and wut should I say? how long should the call be? should I still DHV on the phone and neg her, or should I just start build comfort? should I ask her out on the first call?? |
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stylewizzle
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| sydarm wrote: | | don't # close and fail to even call, u shouldn't ask in the first place if ur afraid to call. fuck it up a few times, u'll learn...same as sarging |
here is what happened later on, any suggestions?
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