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Lucifer
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 Posted: Mon Dec 10, 2007 12:26 am Post subject: First Sarge at beach. |
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Ok here it is and im gonna lay it out flat from my mind to through this keyboard and into yours should you chose to go on. I have had a few chances to use what i had learned from Te game, and MM and "THE" society in general, around HBs. Just today at the beach i was feeling pretty good from a sorta sarge i had done the night before. But today would be my first time approaching a GROUP of strangers, particularly about 5-6 HBs at least four of them hb5 & up(and my scale is strict)in the daytime. Well i had my brother with me -who is interested in Learnin the "pua ways"- and a skeptical friend who isnt too smooth. I was talking about how i wanted to sarge and they seemed nervous yet kind of interested. This of course, is because this sort of thing is not the norm for us. So i see the group of Hbs and im like "Fuck this, you wanna open with me". **Side note: i had seen them earlier and went to get whatever wing i could** . He was pretty much un responsive, kinda like " id ont know man i gottta see" which i could tell instantly meant that id be going in alone. ***Another Side Note: I am 17 and like 5'6 pretty built and tan, No brad pitt but not ugly/nerdy either** Still an afc tho. And here is this group who sees me coming; two girls particulary. I had on my best "i just bench pressed the whole world smile on" As i came close i was realizing these women were all like 22+. I got nervous, hell i was nervous as fuck just lokking. It had taken every ounce of will power in my body for me to approach and the sad attempt to open went as follows.
HB: Uhh ya?
AFC: (stammers) uh i was wondering if if you guys had some tanning lotion i could use.
HB2: uhh are you serious(both cast souldraining glances)
AFC:(trying to keep composure) Dead ass .....(in an ateempted Cf manner
HB: were so over it....
*awkward pause*
they look at each other
HB: here you wants some lotion *squirts lotion on to my chest* (i have a nice body, but make no mistake i was being PLAY'd)
AFC: thanks
HB:BYE
at the end there maybe a little more was stammered out of my mouth but it didnt matter. I left embarrased, but wiser. and i actually felt good once i looked at my bro & friend who had lingered and stared and knew the whole time that they would do no more than just that. It is a new barrier broken for me and they knew it, and perhaps evn wished they had done it despite witnessing me get shot down. We talked about it and they gave me props on how they were all wayyy hot and Older than me. I said ya(but i was not satisfied so i was determined to keep sarging). Nothing else cam up and as the day went on i began to get depressed. Looking back on it all now(it all took place but a few hours ago) im real happy im not here wondering what could have been like ive done so many times for the past years. Even after simply noticing me try to pick up they both became more open to talk about the dynamics of picking up . despite this id sll like to meet some good wingmen/mentors. Thats my story i wanna be a PUA i really do.
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KingMidas
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Sounds like a decent first attempt, but day game is really hard. Instead of sarging at the mall or at the beach, do the newbie mission (say 'hi' to EVERY girl that walks by). After a few hours you will be very warmed up, conditioned to make your facial expression receptive to strangers, and the day game gets easier. Plus you won't have to worry about the anxiety of trying to make a number close.
As far as how to disarm your best friend when you only want him to wing, that is very tricky. The more girls you talk to, the less you will care about any specific target, and the more used to working with each other you get, the less you will naturally step on each other for a girl's attention. Necessarily so because you will blow out of sets if there's too much confusion about each person's role, including the girls. |
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